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i can't keep my freakin mouth shut.....

2006-07-30 20:43:03 · 21 answers · asked by Betty Sue 3 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

i told a huge secret to someone i stupidly thought i could trust, but they told. now i have shattered the trust of the one person who means the most to me. i am the biggest jerk in the world.

2006-07-30 20:46:26 · update #1

I should be taken out and shot....I am seriously considering some sort of self-punishment, physical or otherwise.

2006-07-30 20:55:01 · update #2

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You've gotten some really horrible and mean remarks made to you. I don't think you are a horrible person. Sometimes temptation is bigger than we are and we are human. Humans are less than perfect.....as you've seen by some of the hateful remarks made to you! Learn from your mistakes. You can't take back what you did but you can learn from this and not repeat it again in the future. I hope you are able to mend fences with this situation.

2006-07-31 13:25:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I think you are not a horrible person.Whatever you are,you are created by our God.You have no physical shortcoming.You can not freaking mouth shut is not be worried .If you look around you there are many menand women who are not physically completesuch as a cripple legs,blid eyes etc.But youmust convince that whatever God created someone with His Decree.will have each partner or spouse and each lovelihood.Acc
ording to Islamic teaching we can not humiliate or offend someone's shortcomings or defficiencies.

2006-07-31 04:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

And this too shall pass.

Let the person know that you feel horrible and you will never make the mistake again. And DONT. With time and patience, this person may forgive you. If not, you just learned a hard lesson.

Good luck!

2006-07-31 04:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You have identified your problem. Now you can solve in in two ways: you can tell everyone you speak with not to share any secrets with you because you cannot keep secrets or you can practice self-control by keeping your thoughts and secrets to yourself. Under the present circumstances, I suggest that you do both. Best wishes.

2006-07-31 03:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0 0

U're not a horrible person, everybody made a secret escape one way or another. Just go to the person that told u the secret and tell them what u have done and excuse yourself . Honesty is the best always ....... Now lets test you lol .........what was the secret again ? hehe

2006-07-31 07:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by maltese 3 · 0 0

You aren't alone.
We all make mistakes like that.

Live and learn.
Now write an apology letter to your friend and clean your side of the street.

You may not be friends ever again with that person, but at least your side of the street will be cleaned up....and you will have learned a valuable lesson.

2006-07-31 10:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It is better to not speak and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt. I barely ever speak and think of myself as a horrible person. since you can't keep your mouth shut, try to put it to some good use.

2006-07-31 03:47:17 · answer #7 · answered by scottdw99 1 · 0 0

Someone has low self-esteem!

But seriously what is the point of secrets, they are freaking stupid. Social games, and they are gay. Just forget it and don't play the game, no matter how serious it was.

2006-07-31 03:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by mathcore321x 2 · 0 0

your just saying whats on your mind but that dont mean that your a bad person not to hurt your feelings but there is a time to talk and a time to listen have a good day

2006-07-31 03:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0 0

Calm down. You just did something unintelligent. It doesn't make you a horrible person. We all make mistakes. Don't dwell on them, learn from them.

2006-07-31 03:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by Master Maverick 6 · 0 0

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