he's seen me a million ways with clothes on but wnts to see me naked, but im to embarssed to let him see me, i've had sex but always with like a tshirt on, and hes never said anything til ow, been with him for 7 1/2 months and he wants to marry me? but how when im shy like this?
2006-07-30 20:26:29 · 6 answers · asked by start w/ laughs ends witha fight 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First you need to spend time with yourself alone and naked. Get comfortable with your body. Then try sex completely naked but with the lights out. After say two weeks, light a candle, then keep adding more light. He's obviously attracted to you, or he wouldn't want to be naked with you.
2006-07-30 20:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does matter, to you. You have to be comfortable in your own skin before you can do this. You do sound like you have some self image problems. You really should love yourself before getting married. Sex is really awesome when you love that special person and trust him enough to put that shyness aside. You have to feel comfortable enough to do it though. This may sound silly but look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful even if you have flaws. Hopefully your man loves you for what is inside not on your skin.
2006-07-30 20:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by AngiB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry.. its usual for guys asking such things in such a relationship...
you will have to do it for sure if you really like him.. and of course.. why keep secrets if you want to marry him too...
but if your nakedness is of respect to you.. remember to make it a night to remember whenever you do it.. it is gonna be your first time.. innit..!?
have fun girl..
2006-07-30 21:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by mk_single 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.... you have some issues there. Quit being a weirdo and get naked.
2006-07-30 20:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by VR4Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get it step by step.
don't rush,he'll understand it.no?
and tell him how u feel.
don't be shy if u love the guy!
2006-07-30 20:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married first then show him your nude body.
2006-07-30 21:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋