2006-07-30 20:20:28 · 13 answers · asked by mossy oak 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
People who have abortions as a form of birth control wouldn't understand.
You do have options: a fertility specialist would be a good place to start (if you haven't already). Many times, it comes down to needing to relax. I've seen people try for years, and just give up. Then BAM they were pregnant. Cutting sugars and starches out of your diet has been known to help, as well.
If you can't have a child of your own, yes, adoption is a good option. There are plenty of children out there, who would love to have a good home, and two parents who love them.
2006-07-31 05:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was 22 my husband and I tried for 5 years to have a baby.
Although we had lots of fun, I didn't get pregnant. We both had tests and we were both fertile, nothing wrong, it just wouldn't happen.
My Gyno said that I was just trying too hard and suggested we get a puppy. The reasoning he gave is that with my maternal instinct so high, it needed to be put to good use with the care of a young puppy.
Well, 3 months later I was pregnant and I never had a problem from there on. I am convinced that his idea was the reason, I just got so wound up with the puppy, I forgot about concentrating on having a baby. The puppy was a Labrador and she and our first daughter were inseparable.
Of course you still need to see your Dr. but if there is nothing wrong and you are able to have a puppy, go for it.
2006-07-30 20:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by the_knowing2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I hate the "trying too hard" answers... If it's been 5 years, get a referral to a reproductive endocronologist and start testing to see what the problem is.
Generally you start with hormone tests and your partner has a sperm test & then you take it from there. If everything looks good, you may be sent for a hysterosalpingogram (uterine x-ray) to see if your uterus is shaped correctly and that your tubes aren't blocked.
There are a variety of assisted reproduction techniques and with the help of a good doctor or medical center, you can find what's right for you.
2006-07-30 23:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by IVF Expert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen a fertility doctor yet? If not, that should be your first step. You can also try those ovulation kits that tell you when the right time is to have sex so that you can get pregnant. If you have been though all that already, there are other options such as sperm donors, surrogacy, and adoption. But you should talk to your doctor about all this.
2006-07-30 20:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by wannaknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a heart, and adopt a child.
Obviously if you've been trying for so long, you either don't know when to have sex so that you're ovulating, or you're just not meant to have kids.
If you're so desperately trying to have them, and you can't, just adopt. It's not that hard.
I don't understand why people want their own children SO badly. They go through the stupidest things just to have their own like hiring surrogates, and going to sperms banks, etc.
Why not give a poor orphan the loving family he/she deserves?
2006-07-30 20:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by Stella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do everything hard of your effort ,be patient and also ask for help to your God every time after you pray
!) consult and ask help from your wellknown gyn doctor specialist both you and your husband
2)follow your doctor's advice strictly
3)try to ask help to other doctor for a second opinion if your first doctror's advice has no impact to improve your fertility.
4)adopt someone's baby to angle your own baby.
I hope God will bless you.
2006-08-03 18:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by seeing a Dr if you haven't already. A reproductive endocrinologist is better than a gynecologist for fertility issues. If you have already exhausted treatment options, consider looking into adoption.
Good luck!!!
2006-07-31 12:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by meltee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 03:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have a good fertility workup with your ob/gyn or a fertility specialist (called a reproductive endocrinologist). They will help you determine the problem and help you resolve it!
2006-07-31 00:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by NancyO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your doctor. You probably need to go through fertility testing.
2006-07-31 07:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋