we have alot in common seriously i think hes my soul mate, but im in the U.S. i've known him for about 7 or 8 months now and tlk with him everyday.he is a 22 year old nd his religion is muslim, just few months younger than me. a friend of mine says its 2 good to be true but i think he truly honestly loves me, just reading people's articles online about people just saying everything u could possible want to hear just to get a greencard, he has never mentioned or even asked for anything, just my love, he really is pushing for us to meet and get married, so what do u think, should i?
2006-07-30 20:13:31 · 5 answers · asked by start w/ laughs ends witha fight 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you know what are you talking about?
Being 22 and considering marrying somebody from such a different culture, another religion and besides where would you go to live??
He is pushing to get meet you...is that a "virtual" relationship or have you meet him already?
About getting the green card through a marriage, it would not be something unusual. How can anybody want to marry you without even having met him???
I live in Europe, where many Moroccans are established moreover in the French speaking areas. Besides, I visited Tunisia once for tourism...What shall I say?
In Muslim countries women stays at home and they must always accept what the husband tells them to do. Once having kids, the problem only becomes worst, since choosing the religion will be already an issue.
Please, think twice: I've known cases where a couple met and everything was shining, but after being in touch with his family , environment and habits, the tradition replaces the so called adaptative behavior and then you might loose not only your freedom but your kids.
Save you problems, just think for a while: nobody pushes so hard to get married without knowing a person unless there is something not entirely clear.
Are you sure his English is so good, about his education and how would you live after your marriage?
Sure, he would not mention the green card, or anything else that would make you suspect he is searching for a passport to get away.
Be careful, your friend might be right since she is able to see the situation with some distance.
You have so much time to look around, enjoy your life and choose somebody in whom you can entirely rely....
Watch out, young women are frequently ruining their lives thinking that is because of a soul mate. How can you be sure about it??
Fro
2006-07-30 20:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by Expat Froggy 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO ..... and I raelly mean it NO NO NO
It is very common for guys from Moroco to try and get girls here to fall for them. NEVER go visit. You want to end up in a hole in the ground. That part of the whole isn't safe.
This guy couldn't possibably love you. You are hyptonized by his words to you. This happens all the time. I have guys hit on me all the time, talking words of love and I just blow them off.
Please don't continue this. Too good to be true is too good to be true. I can't stress this enough. DONT do this!
I had a guy friend who spent $4,000 on a trip to Russia to see a girl who really loved him, or so he thought. When he got there she was a ***** who only wanted a way to get to the states. This guy might never trust anyone again.
Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee stop this. You are being coned. I
I bet you he has several other woman he is working on besides you. I don't want you to be hurt or mislead by this man. Words are powerful. He knows what to say to make you feel that you love him. You are in love with an illlusion he has spun.
I can't stress this enough ok . Please listen to you friend. Delet htis guy. Come on as another woman and I bet you anything he would love that woman too. Sorry but this is how it is.
2006-07-31 03:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, the question is, are you truly ready to love a man to go halfway around the world for? Is he truly worth it? Only you know the answers to these questions. But, if you truly, deeply love him, and you are certain that he is worth the loving, then by all means go for it girl.
But, if it seems like you're the one who's doing the chasing, and he seems to just be kind of shady for some reason, try to re-think it over. Sometimes re-thinking your options can find you the right answer.
2006-07-31 03:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by forest_without_sounds 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think you should meet him, then plan a trip with a friend and go meet him. Then, if it doesn't work out, at least you and your friend can have a bit of a vacation!
Good Luck!
Aloha!
2006-07-31 03:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
morocco sounds nice
2006-07-31 03:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋