my guy is like 135lbs soak and wet, and im just so shy about my fat and how i look but he says he loves me no matter what.
2006-07-30 20:03:07 · 12 answers · asked by start w/ laughs ends witha fight 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So then you have nothing to worry about. Dude sounds like a good guy. As far as he's probably concerned, you're either 1) not that big, or 2) more woman to love. Either way, you both win!
2006-07-30 20:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Assy McBonerson 3 · 10⤊ 1⤋
As long as he loves you. I'm a pretty skinny guy myself, but my girlfriend thinks I'm fine. Though I protest. She herself complains that she's little on the meaty side, but I love her that way. Personally I want someone I can hold on to, someone who feels solid to me, I think it comes from being thin myself and so low on self-confidence. I think thats the same thing with "big" woman...its like we long for something different from ourselves especially if we have issues about ourselves. I think its a nice thing to have, someone who loves and gives you confidence about the way you look even if society has its own criticisms.
Although I think even if I was a little heavier, I would still prefer someone with a nice fitting figure, someone whos got fat to pinch, to put it bluntly... its nice to be with someone who's not trying to kill themselves through diet, and I don't think being shying is problem. Its also cute :D. Not too say I want a really big woman, I just want someone who is healthy.
2006-07-31 03:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am thicke and thin,and also muscular guys are attracted to me.I guess because we are soo soft and smooth. Big girls have a lot of energy in bed!!!
2006-07-31 03:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by Lollipop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if the guy is with you then he must love you no matter how you look, there are only a few guys like that. besides your not fat.. your just overwight , but its not a problem.
2006-07-31 03:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. If he wasn't attracted to you, he wouldn't be with you. Just work on loving yourself as much as he loves you.
2006-07-31 03:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then baby thanks God you have a good man and treat him as such. apparently to him he sees all of you inside and out and he likes what he sees so don't second guess your self and just be happy.. good luck and remeber good love is hard to find!!
2006-07-31 03:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by munchkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because we know how to treat a man and way, way better lovers than skinny women....DONT QUESTION HIM, JUST ENJOY HIM...
2006-07-31 03:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by Feathers-n-Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's Good!!...How Sweet!!
2006-07-31 03:08:33 · answer #8 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a big core fan of BBW so no worries. just be yourself cuz he thinks you are beautiful with they way you are.
2006-07-31 03:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you so what is the issue?
2006-07-31 03:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋