Is it normal to have a desire to have sex everyday. I feel it everyday. Iam unable to control myself when my?

Question

body got touched with my husband. I feel so horrible even when my hand touches his hand. unfortunately he couldnot do it every day.we do it once in 10 days. iam 25 and he is 39.he never thinks abt my feelings.he had got all with his two wives whom he left over.ours is a love marriage.so i couldnot hurt him asking to satisfy my feelings. so i want to control myself.please tell me any medial way to overcome this problem.I love my husband very much.so please dont give nasty or posh answers. i need a good answer.Thanks

Answer 1

Try talking to him about it Just be upfront. Be very open and very gentle and considerate because such conversations can really hurt a man's ego.

If you're not getting what you want from your relationship do your best to spice it up. Women want romance but aren't always romantic. If you want to make love more often then put yourself out there. Risk the chance of being denied. Sometimes its up to us to do the work.

Making love should be about both people. But sometimes it is nice to center it on just one. Its a marriage of love. So show him how much you love his body. Pay very close attention to the things that get a response from him and focus on those things.

Talk to him as openly as possible about it and learn just what it is that he desires. Men are visual creatures. Invest in something sexy for him or do something very out of the norm for you and see what kind of response you get.

If this doesn't work another alternative is to pleasure yourself. Invest in a toy or simply take matters into your own hands. That is a very realistic and healthy option if your husband just can't give you what you desire.

Good luck. I hope everything works out for you.

Answer 2

Hi my sister, i must say you are suffering the pain you created for Ur self out of a mistake, may be no body advices you. In the 1st place why did u consider being a third wive while others were alive, in-fact let me tell u 3 mistake u made,1. u didn't do Ur self better when u considering Ur self as a 3ed wive while other are alive. 2.i think u suppose to marry a man whose the age is 8 years interval, 3edly. u suppose to Darth a man be for u consider him as Ur husband, that's why darting is very good.
I suppose u must be a reasonable woman when u said u still love Ur husband, i think the 1st to do is pray to GOD cos nothing is impossible to him. U should talk to Ur husband if he do listing to u, probably he might change cos he may not know Ur feelings,and if he ignore, i think u should buy vibrator or toy instead of committing adultery cos that will worsen the matter. But above all prayer is the main key, don't look out for gigolo or play boy or adultery cos i tell u, that will definitely cost Ur marriage.

Answer 3

I'm not sure about the age statement. My wife is nineteen and I am forty. We have sex several times every day and always have.

Your desire for sex is completely normal and healthy, especially in a woman your age. Your sex drive is NOT a problem, it is any indicator of good physical and mental health.

I would question your husband's level of health though. A man of his age should easily be able to have sex at least once every couple of days. Understand that I am not trying to belittle the man's virility, or criticise him personally. I am saying that this is an indicator of very poor health. If you love him, help him get in better health so that your love can last you many decades to come.

Answer 4

Once in 10 days? Is something wrong with him? Honey, you feel what you feel and most men would be tripping all over themselves to have their wives wanting them so much. I understand you don't want to put too much pressure on him but come on he needs to step up to the plate a little. In the meantime get yourself a vibrator, they are great fun and he can't complain if he's not taking care of business!

Answer 5

It's totally normal. you can go to a therapist if you need to. I don't want to sound nasty but DIY. I read your other question. Maybe you should get out and meet a nice guy for a "quick fix." ; ) Maybe you should find someone else entirely for good. Someone younger and nicer. I don't know 10 days is a long time he might be DIYing himself or hiring someone else to do it. Get it. He sounds like a womanizer.

Answer 6

get some playthings, toys. find some guy on the street and do him. have an affair. have a netaffair. standard answers.

right answer: find something to do with you mind and body. It may be a job. It may be working with your hands. Whatever you do concentrate on it untill you have to go to sleep. That answer came from a pastor when I asked the same question.

Answer 7

first of all he's 39 and been married twice he have done it all you still young i think you wasn't really for all that you still wanted to explore before settling down so right about now my best thought either buy a vibrator or buy him some viguarl

Answer 8

sugar, buy a vibrator or toys, just because he doesnt feel the need to have sex, doesnt leave any reason he cant please u when u feel the need. ur a very sexual woman and there is no reason 2 suppress that. pleasure yourself or ask him 2 pleasure u even if he doesnt seek his own pleasure.
good luck

Answer 9

This is normal to have desire to have sex everyday.Why not talk to your hubby about your desire.OR u may suggest to him to have oral sex with you as this also will be help you with your desire.
After sometime this will tone down.Don't worry.

Answer 10

I BELIEVE THAT ITS PERFECTLY NORMAL TO HAVE THE DESIRE FOR SEX. IF WE DIDN'T HAVE THAT DESIRE FOR SEX THE POPULATION WOULD DIE OUT AND THEIR WOULD'NTBE ANYMORE BABIES BORN. HE IS YOUR HUSBAND , AND HE PROMISED TO MEET YOUR NEEDS THE DAY THAT YOU GOT MARRIED, SO BE HONEST WITH HIM AND TELL HIM THAT YOU NEED TO SPEND MORE INTIMATE TIME IN THE BEDROOM WITH HIM. IF HE IS A GOOD HUSBAND HE WILL WANT TO GIVE HIS WIFE PLEASURE............. P.S I WISH I WAS YOUR HUSBAND ! LOL