i mean she wants me to have a baby but 'ya know...babies need to be planned for...i mean come on...
2006-07-30 19:45:41 · 20 answers · asked by MORENITA 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
What's up is responsability and you may find it boring because you don't know what it is to care for a child. You are right though; babies need to be planned for!
2006-07-30 20:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend probably doesn't even realize that she is being boring because she is so caught up into the mother thing which is nothing wrong with that because kids did make it like that, perhaps you can plan on some outings with just you and her without the kids,but keep in mind that her time will be limited so you can't expect her to be able to run away for the weekend with you. I'm just being realistic,as far as you having a baby,that should be your decision alone and you're very smart to think ahead because once you have a baby,that's it,there's no going back. I got kids of my own,think of how grand your life is right now, you are at the top of your game, you can come and go as you please,that would be paradise for me. You don't have to answer for anyone or explain anything to anyone because that is the beauty of being childless.
2006-07-30 19:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones and chemicals were produced just prior to the baby's birth that cause her to want to nurture her children. This nurturing also carries over to others. Because this nurturing reminds you of your mother, you classify her as boring because you classify your mothers nurturing as boring.
She is trying to talk you into having a child so you will become more like her. In other words, she now considers you a child and that is where the nurturing come back into it.
2006-07-30 19:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend may not have became boring.
You two are very different right now.
When she gets money she has to decide whether she is going to the beauty parlor or buying something for her child(ren)
Although there are books on parenting, every experience is different.
As a friend, what type of support have you offered since she had the child(ren)
Do you realize that when people have children they have to prioritize?
2006-07-30 19:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by nubianbx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u r right babies should be planned for....if she is boring it is because he kids is tiring her out...i mean u can still have fun and do u ...it may not be the same without ur friend but hey u just be there for her if she is a real friend and vice vera...good luck.
2006-07-30 19:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has new priorities and responsibilities. She's becoming mature while you still want to play like a little kid. You should be supportive of her, assuming you are truly a good friend. Do you babysit for her so she can get out sometimes?
2006-07-30 19:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does have more responsibilities you cant change that you can help by hanging out with her taking care of the baby or maybe surprise her get someone to take care of the baby and then you guys can go out like old times
2006-07-30 19:52:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just tired from the kids. Having kids can be very stressful and it leaves little time for fun.
2006-07-30 19:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by A. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes tired, stressed out and probably feeling a little bit alone with it all, babys r VERY VERY owerwhelming and shes probably a bit more mature because of it all, not find fun where she used 2. try do "boring" activities with her and b supportive a bit.
2006-07-30 19:50:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because she wants to set a good image for kid and acts a certain way around them. She is probably with them so much when she is with you she doesn't have much to talk about... my thoughts on that. Best of luck.
2006-07-30 19:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋