How do I talk my pregnant GF into getting an abortion? I don't want no kids, or child support?

Question

She says its against her beliefs or yada yada, but she hasn't stopped to think about how this will effect me! How do i get her to have an abortion? Should I say unless she gets one I'm going to dump her and leave her?

Answer 1

You're an idiot.

Answer 2

I'm not usually critical of people asking questions but I'm making an exception for you. Why are you being so selfish? Is your life more important than a babys? If you don't want kids, get a vasectomy. What happened to the condom when you were having sex? I think that you should break up, so that she can find someone who wants to be a father to your child.
Instead of trying to get her to have an abortion, why don't you talk to your girlfriend about adoption so the child can be raised by two loving parents.
If you loved your girlfriend, you would care more about how she feels. Almost every woman who has an abortion goes through a deep depression eventually. A woman's body naturally wants to nurture a child and it feels unnatural to have that child ripped from her body.

Answer 3

Dont even think of arbortion there are so many risks involved.she might end up dying or not being able to give birth in her whole life, again she'll always be haunted by th little life she is going to kill.In a way u'll also be affected Let her give birth if u both of u can not raise th kid take her to a children home or even look for sponsorship there are so many people all over the world who av never been blessed or rather lucky to hav kids and are just wishing they cld av. U cant dump her now or leave wen she needs u most. U were both involved in the act u hav to face the consequences together. next tym learn to use birth control or even practice chastity instead of takin risks.

Answer 4

Don't be an idiot. That's a life we are talking about here. She SHOULD NOT get an abortion. On the other hand, besides wanting her to understand you, you should try to understand the after effects of a abortion. Abortion does no good to any women.

Answer 5

You are a fool! You should never try to talk someone into killing another human being, Your child at that. If you don't
want kids stop having sex! Get fixed! Then you won't have to worry except about stds. It would be a blessing for you to leave her! Then she can use her strength and love to raise a great child without your selfish-hateful-murdering-attitude interfering!I pray for your child to never know of your disdain for a child and the way you have treated your gf! God be with your gf and child and I pray that they succeed in life as happy and safe as possible.Go get FIXED!!!!!

Answer 6

look, abortion to me is jsut wrong! but its both of yals decision.dont even try to pull that, "ima dump you inf you dont" crap, cuz its not gonna work. Its a life, and obviously that life matters to her more than anything now.

If you really dont want anything to do with this baby,(how sad) draw up some papers and have her sign,. resign your right as a parent, and/or supporter.

abortion vs having a baby is her decision too you can either be part of it or not. good luck, but dont think you can "convince" anyone to do anything in a situation like this.

Answer 7

So your pretty much saying that you would rather abort your child then take responsibility? Be A MAN! GROW UP! You can't go around demanding abortions because you don't feel like taking care of a child. Wear a condom or just don't have sex. And your right......you should break up with her ..........so she can find someone who can help "her" raise your kid.

Answer 8

If she needs to maintain the baby, you will desire to truly quit attempting to cajole her otherwise. this is her physique. And in case you do no longer want to be a father, possibly you will desire to placed on risk-free practices or merely no longer have intercourse in any respect. in case you're unlikely to take the accountability, you may desire to advance up. Plus, abortions can do severe harm to a youthful female's physique, or to any female's physique for that remember. quit questioning approximately your self and initiate off helping her. through fact the toddler is interior HER and not popping out of your pathetic ***, this is fullyyt her decision. no longer 50-50. Shouda concept approximately issues like this till now you desperate to dip your wick. you're 24 AND a dumb***! Congratulations. you will desire to pass to penitentiary for statutory rape and then have a mandatory vasectomy. whether the legal age is sixteen or 18, you truly would desire to mature. I on no account truly concept there have been genuine adult males interior the international as dumb and immature as you.

Answer 9

What an A$$!!! Why didn't YOU stop to think how it would affect you when you laid down with her. Where is your responsibility??? You can not talk her into getting an abortion.

Better yet, why don't you try?? You can tell her that you will leave her and with any luck, she will choose the baby and kick your sorry, irresponsible a$$ to the curb. Her and baby are clearly better off without you.

Good riddence!

Answer 10

If your girlfriend is pregnant, you already HAVE a "kid," whether you want one or not. You made the choice to have sex with your girlfriend, and now you want to kill your own child because of what YOU did? Be a man and take responsibility for your actions. This is your son or daughter you're talking about. He or she is depending on you for love and protection. Do you really want to do this to your child?

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Answer 11

If you didnt want her to get pregnant you should have kept you dick in your pants. It's her body and she has the right to keep what is growing in it and you have the responablity to pay child support. Now hope you have learned a lesson, stop having unprotected sex if you dont want a kid. Its morons like you that make me feel sorry for offspring. Try being a man.