My wife thinks I'm cheating with every girl/woman/human female that comes within 50 feet of me. Is she a freak, or is she just hormonal?
2006-07-30 19:24:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
im 6 mos pregnant now and stuck at home...sometimes my mind plays tricks on me and i have nightmares or daymares that hes cheating....after all he has a life...his prepreg body... i dont have much of either...i cant party...work...nothing...
ofcourse hes cheating on me...who wouldnt? right? didnt he speak to that so-called co-worker a little too much this week? so what if he's their boss?!!!
ok.ok.its my sh@#$y hormones. my hubby helps by reassurring that im a beautiful pregnant woman and hes fortunate im carrying his child. and occassional body or footrub helps... and some flowers once in a while...like when we were dating.
2006-07-30 22:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by tiera29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be hormonal. one of my friends told me that when his chick was pregnant she was the same way and she was always yelling at him and blaming him for everything wrong going on in her life. she would accuse him of cheating and would tell him how much she hated him! so i guess its pretty normal i mean c'mon now she is making a baby pretty crazy when u think about it how things work out like that so just be patient with her okay. I'm sure you would be the same if you were pregnant :D It could also be because a lot of girls feel very unattractive when they are pregnant. They feel ugly and fat so i'm sure she gets jealous when she sees a skinny woman in front of you. She probably feels like you would rather be with a skinny woman than with her big bellied body, so its a self esteem issue as well. Remember to tell her she looks beautiful even with a big belly. Personally I think its beautiful when a woman is pregnant, it shows her womanhood.
2006-07-30 19:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by chica™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just full of raging hormones and most women feel yucky about themselves you need to reassure her that she is beautiful and sexy and let her know the special glow she has right now and it may help if you get into a book about how the baby is growing that will make her feel secure!! take her out somewhere just the two of you no public place ha ha don't worry it will get better oh don't come on too strong she might feel you are guilty about something women are crazy ha ha lol so be gentle and concerned for her needs best wishes too you guys and hang in there this is the beginning after the baby's born she might have the common baby blues do some research and get prepared lol good luck......
2006-07-30 19:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women become very hormonal when they are pregnant but I dont find that normal. We feel a bit insecure because our bodies are changing but to actually think that you are cheating with everyone is not good and not normal. Maybe she needs some counseling.
2006-07-30 22:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by JAYNE C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just pregnant. It is fairly normal. With my 1st pregnancy I was the same way. My husband came home from work and I was crying my eyes out. I finally told him what it was. He was 15 minutes late coming home from work and I swore he was cheating on me. He was stuck in traffic after a wreck blocked the road for a while. It is pretty funny now. I was heart broken then though.
2006-07-31 12:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by dani113077 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably thinking about how unattractive she looks in her current state. Please make her feel loved and appreciated and sexy...and yes, she is hormonal, but for Gods sake...DON'T TELL HER THAT! She'll get mad. Just take it in stride, be supportive, and help her mentally, she'll need all the help she can get, and you need a friend (male) to talk to so you can vent! Be patient, that cute little baby and a happy marriage (after the stress & the hormones are gone) will be well worth the wait!
2006-07-30 19:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by daydreamnamy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 08:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just horomonal. Many of the women on the pregnancy boards that I'm on have this problem. They know it's illogical, but for some reason they just can't help it. Some women, especially, become very insecure because they don't feel sexy while pregnant. But yes, I'd say she's just being horomonal.
2006-07-30 19:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by criticalcatalyst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just as their is post par-tum depression, their is depression that can occur during pregnancy. I am no Dr, but have taken psychology courses in college. It sounds that your wife may be experiencing this. Normal. She is feeling inferior and very self conscience right now. She needs your support more so now than ever. Hopefully as the pregnancy progresses this will pass. Help her enjoy this fabulous stage in your lives. Good luck.
2006-07-30 19:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by t g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just be hormonal unless she is like that when she isn't pregnant. Spend some time with her and let her know how beautiful and wonderful you think she is. Hopefully, it will subside once her hormones balance out.
2006-07-30 19:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋