all the guys in my band like me way too much and they focase on me instead of the band its so hard to deal with!!??! i need help I.M. me pleaze
2006-07-30 19:23:08 · 7 answers · asked by spike j 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
I used to work for a company that was mostly men. Sometimes guys think that when you are being sweet and happy, they take it as flirting and automatically take it to another level. Men seem to think with their....um...you know, so if you want respect, and want to make them understand that you are there for the music, you have to tell them. Up front, straight to their faces that you don't appreciate the things they say or the gestures they make. If they don't stop then you are too good to be in a band with a bunch of disrespectful people! Good luck!
2006-07-30 19:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're just being normal hormone driven young guys. Let them know their attention isn't wanted, and if they don't stop, you'll have to quit the band. If it keeps happening, quit for your own safety. Sad to say, some guys still don't think "no" means no.
2006-07-31 02:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by apollo124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would flirt with them all. that is, if they are all your friends. unless there is 1 that u like, then just flirt with him. every1 else should get the point that u just want to b friends. but in the end, u just have to remeber, they r guys, always will be. once u accept guys as a perverts, ull b able to at least put up with them.
2006-07-31 02:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by sonrisa_79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
98% of all guys are like that. They are just a little horny, they need to get laid really bad. When they grow up and mature more this will stop. Only thing you can do is confront them, or hand them a playboy and send them to the restroom.
2006-07-31 02:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by Curth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some band mates who aren't so sleazy and that will be as dedicated as you. Or form a chick band.
2006-07-31 02:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by Paige F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are probably young which means that their hormones are raging. either that, or you are just extremely hot and they can't help but notice it. do you grind and gyrate when you're jamming?
2006-07-31 02:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its b/c they r guys
2006-07-31 02:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋