I caught my younger brother looking at porn again what should i do ?

Question

hes 13, this is his 3rd time hes watchin late nite cable. if i tell my parents they would kill him he's suppose to be the perfect one in the family when i tell him to stop he seys yes but he dose it agian. he trusts me he would never think that i his brother would rat him out like that. but he shouldn't be looking at porn hes 13

Answer 1

Hi...

You know, it is natural for your brother to be curious at his age (13). He is probably using the porn as a way to learn about himself and learn the feelings that he is starting to feel (being in puberty) about women, men and sex. However, porn is not the way he should be learning.

Did you sit down and talk to him about it? Did you ask him why he felt the need to watch porn? If you haven't, it is something you should do. Perhaps he is looking for answers and is too embarressed to ask. As his older brother, you can answer his questions and he will probably feel more comfortable talking to you about it than to your parents.

Otherwise, start locking the adult channels.

Best Wishes... T.

Answer 2

The problem with porn is that it is not realistic and he is not old enough to really get that yet. You don't want him thinking that all men (except him) have perfect bodies, 10"+ trouser snakes and endless orgasms - or that all women are blond, have huge breasts and long to make it with an entire football team.

I am being silly but you get the point. With all the ways to access porn now, the real question is not will kids see it but will they understand what they are seeing.

You or your parents need to talk to him - you are the only one with enough info to know which is the better choice....

Good Luck - he is lucky to have a brother that cares as much as you.

Answer 3

He's 13 and he is very horny. It's very hard to control an adolescent's urges. He should hang out with the opposite sex more often, so that he will not have a distorted idea of a female by watching too much porn.

Answer 4

tape it so he can watch it at a more reasonable hour, thats what big brothers are for. No, watching pornos is a bad habit that can desensitize you to what sex is actually like, and can lead to distorted thoughts on what women are supposed to look like. You should set up a situation where a parent must respond to something late at night which involves walking in on him, such as a phone call.

Answer 5

You are right...

He shouldn't be at his age, but the reason he can is because your parents have those channels available in the home.

So rather than ratting on your little brother, ask your parents why you have those channels to begin with...


Then just say that,

"What if your brother were to see them?"

Answer 6

If it's there, kids are going to look at it. There are ways mom and dad can block the reception of porn. Suggest this is a good idea to them...you don't have to tell them why.

Answer 7

well, he's a guy and it's about that time for him to be very curious about sex. I think it's safer to let him experience it by watching porn, than to actually go out and experiment with someone at this young of an age...

Answer 8

At least he's not out having actual sex, porn is good for masturbation. Tell him go for it, just don't let the parents find out, thats what I did years ago.

Answer 9

You can either create a situation where your parents catch him or talk to him about why you think it's not appropriate for someone his age (or whatever problem you have with it). You don't indicate how much older you are, but if he looks up to you, it may help to just have a heart-to-heart about it. Good luck.

Answer 10

if he is the golden child, you may do more harm than good by telling on him, they probably won't believe you, plus then he won't trust you, this is probably more of a phase and no a big deal, have your parents had "the talk" with him yet, maybe he has some questions that need answering,