2006-07-30 18:56:06 · 13 answers · asked by ms.confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most of the time this has more meaning than he will tell you. It is an excuse for him to get him way and get attention or even an excuse to get out of chores and go do outside activities. Talk to him and try to resolve the problem as a couple maybe he can participate more in the family so you will have more time to spend with him. If he does not try to resolve this do not blame yourself that is the oldest trick in the book. If he helps more at home you would have more time and energy for him. If that does not work just move on and do the best you can with what you have. But remember bored people get into trouble because they go looking for excitement.
2006-07-30 20:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think that he is being very disrespectful to you when he says that. Does he not realize you have feelings?
What would I do? I would tell him that if he is sooo bored with me, then he knows where the door is. May sound mean, ..but that is what I would say. He could have chosen his words much more carefully..didn't have to come off as so personal.
Another good way to approach it would be to ask him what "he" plans on doing to spice it up. That will help to keep you from getting blamed for how "he" feels.
Once he realizes how that sounds maybe he can word it to you in a way where you won't feel defensive. You might ask him to talk about how he feels without making it sound like he doesn't enjoy being with you. Good luck to you...hope this helps.
2006-07-30 20:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by ShineOn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey that means now is the right time for u to plan a long holiday with your husband,refurnish your home,get a makeover .break the monotony by little things.
2006-07-30 20:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to break the routine and inject some fun, for example, make a pact to do something fun at least once a week, my boyfriend and i are doing alphabet weekends, we started with something beginning with A (we took our little boy to an Animal park), the next weekend we did something beginning with B (Bungee....gulp), after that was C - Canoeing and so on..it has been great fun so far . if his dispair is past help, you should get a counsellor involved. good luck.
2006-07-30 19:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw him a surprise party with the occasion being how much his family loves him. then try and talk to him, see what's wrong and what's goin on in that head of his. i'd be sad and a little hurt to hear my hubby say that. but this is what i would do.........he could be depressed or maybe just in a rut. make plans to change up your daily routines for a while and keep it up.
2006-07-30 20:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRy to order some PIZZA, hold a party, do some gathering or make some plan for sight seeing, travelling by low cost budget..
Go out watch some movie's... or if not; just stay home and
have sex...
2006-07-30 19:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by Love69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him that boring people get bored and to get off his butt and do something to change it. Its a big world with a zillion things to learn and try and see.
2006-07-30 19:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worry, and do what i could to change things from being so routine.. and id talk to him and see if u can both work on it together find out what he wished would change and compromise on what u can and cant change.. anything is fixable if u compromise..
2006-07-30 18:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll encourage him to take up hobbies he forgot to be with in due time.Whatever,joining new language classes,painting,music,writing whatever made him feel good.This way he would be occupied,would be making new friends and feel himself productive.
2006-07-30 19:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is freaking depressed -- he needs some Prozac
2006-07-30 19:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by marindoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋