i like this guy who is 2 years younger than me... 2 problems: 1) he's younger than me!!! 2) (more important) he is my very very good friend and he has told me that he wants to become a bachelor!!! what should i do???
2006-07-30 18:53:18 · 12 answers · asked by Jesi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you love this guy, then absolutely go for it ! if you are suh good friends as you describe, when this was not sipposed to be a love affair, you can still be friends. Love is such a special thing, if you get the one chance for it- go for it !!
2006-07-30 19:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a bachelor-mmkay lol i liked a guy 2 years younger..i posted up a similar question- a girl told me the maturity level maybe the problem - so ya
& be careful u can end up ruining a good friendship
2006-07-31 01:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gawd, two years is not a problem. though i understand your feeling because i've been in a similar situation where i've struggled with it because he was way younger than me. as ppl said to me, age is not a factor when you really care for the other person. if he really is wanting to be a bachelor, then you almost have to respect that. does he mean that he just wants to date different ppl and not be committed to one person. anyway, almost not much you can do about this point. does he know you like him....this may change his mind.
2006-07-31 02:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he wants to remain a bachelor--for his whole life? If he's talked about this, he may be telling you he isn't interested in anything serious. But there's no harm in being gutsy and just asking him if he would ever consider going out with you. If he says "no," don't make him explain or defend his answer, just let it go, no harm done. If he says "yes," then . . .
2006-07-31 01:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is like the young guy just for sexual desires. friends with really good benefits. no strings attach just there to keep you pleasured. and to fulfill his needs he will stay a bachelor.
2006-07-31 01:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by da skoolar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be guided by your instincts, not by a bunch of strangers hiding behind a yahoo avatar and a cool ID. Trust your instincts. Be honest with your feelings and what to do won’t be such a mystery to you.
2006-07-31 02:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship!
2006-07-31 02:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by talkbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMFG no no no never date a good friend when/if u guys break up u are going to wish u never dated trust me thats how i lost alot of my good good frinds!
2006-07-31 01:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by Charlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just settle for his friendship.....u may hurt even more if u expect a return for your feelings
2006-07-31 02:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay com and act like you normally do.
2006-07-31 02:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by Loving 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋