like aww 14 and is going to have a baby what do u tell her i mean god damit could she be any younger i mean aww what do u tell her and she wants me to help out
2006-07-30 18:39:50 · 15 answers · asked by Charlie 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
She should talk to her parents.....They are surely going to be shocked by the news........But they can get her the help she needs so desperately, like the proper prenatal care and such.
Help with decisions about the baby.
2006-07-30 18:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Auntiem115 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do for her is to be her friend. She needs to tell her parents. It is going to be a hard thing no matter what she decides. She will need acceptance and someone to talk to.
Encourage her to stay in school. When she gets frustrated, be someone she can talk to. While it is true, having a baby is a blessing, having a baby at 14 is very hard. She is still a baby herself. She will need the support of her parents or another close family member, and she will need her friends now more than ever before.
2006-07-31 10:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by shirley_corsini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I was you i'd think about whether you think she would make a good parent or not. She is only young bu with support she might be great, or she might not. Really think about it, don't just say she is going to be great because she is your friend.
If you honestly think she will be good at it then just emotionally support here, be there for her when she asks etc
If you honestly don't think so i'd try sitting down and talking out her options with her. Don't push her and upset her, because in the end it is her choice. But let her know her options, and that you will support her whatever she decides.
Also if she hasn't told her parents yet, she may appreciate you being there when she tells them.
2006-07-31 03:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for her. Having a baby, although unexpected, is a blessing. Tell her you're happy for her, her life is going to become so much richer.. and even though she's young, it will help her mature and help her grow up and become responsible. Shes having the baby, so there is no point in saying anything negative to her about it. Seriously, support her! tell her it's amazing, tell her shes going to be a good mother... and wish her the best.
2006-07-31 01:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by juliamour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, I've never been in that situation but if I was I'd be beating the **** out of her boyfriend. To help out you could watch over the baby and help her learn how to take care of it, and if you have a job you could give her a few bucks a month. Also, tell her that if she ever needs anything or has any trouble, that you're there for her.
Good luck to you and her :)
2006-07-31 01:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by Curth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your her friend right be there for her and help her through this she is a child going to rare a child she needs your support. Tell her your there for her a shoulder to cry on, tell her that no matter what you will stand by her and help her through the pregnancy. She is only 14 it will be tough for her but if your a true friend of hers then you will be by her side all the way. She will have the ups and downs hormone changes you name it if she knows your there for her and are happy for her she will be fine. Just be a good friend
2006-08-02 18:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by sharon h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her ur support show and tell her that u will always be there 4 her specially if nobody is happy with the news at her age support her with ur love not with jus money u r willing to give her or want to give her and yeah that baby is gonna change everything but tell her to jus take it easy confince anybody that tells her to get an abortion 2 dont that baby is a gift andf even though it waz not ment 2 happen treat it as if u had ur pet people treat there pets with love that baby needs that from all
2006-07-31 02:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend had a baby at 15 and I support her it is good for you because you can see how it will feels to have one even if its a mistake.....you should be there if its your friend but she going to be busy alot with the baby so some of her friends are going to back away for a while and she might need someone to talk to when down.
2006-07-31 04:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by Lil_Miz_Cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 14 when i had my daughter and i finished school and going on to college and the best thing you can give her now is support that's how i got through it she needs all the support she can get in no matter what she decides to do support her and tell her to e-mail or I'm me i could be a lot of help i was in her shoes once and now have a almost 5 year old daughter
2006-07-31 02:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Katie R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is support her emotionally. You can go to the doctor with her if she needs you, go on snack runs, or just listen to her talk for awhile. I'm sure she needs you right now, having a baby is a huge deal.
2006-07-31 02:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋