2006-07-30 18:36:39 · 17 answers · asked by not happy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you can't. you have to take care of yourself. you can try things...but the fact is. if he's going to cheat. he will...good luck
2006-07-30 18:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by chelle7usa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean happy as in the bedroom happy? If so spice things up a bit. Well try role playing like your the nurse and he is the patient, or try the Catholic school girl who is sent to the principles office for bad behavior. You could be the maid and he could be your master, you could be the cop and you might have to frisk him, dress up and have fun. You can go to a adult store and buy handcuffs whips all kinds of thing. The sky is the limit. Also I found a great website that has great products to spice things up. I buy from them all the time. They are also very discreet about the shipping. http://www.SexToySex.com/shannon0816
2006-07-31 01:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by eeyore_0816 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I don't know where all these folks are coming from, but if he is cheating on you run the opposite direction as fast as you can. You deserve better than that and his chance to fix things would have been before he cheated. Find you a real man.
2006-07-31 02:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by frr_ls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to change, you need to let the man go and find your own happiness. If he's cheating, he will never be happy with you, there will always be a reason for him to go somewhere else and it's you he's going to place the blame on for his infidelity.
Cut your losses and find a man who wants to make you happy.
2006-07-31 01:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by ~SSIRREN~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not happy anymore try talking to him and find out whats the problem maybe you are not always there for him and he cheats to get his needs meet
2006-07-31 01:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really u cant, if he wants to cheat he's going to cheat.. u can be perfect, and if he has the desire to cheat nothing u can do can change that..
2006-07-31 01:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop nagging him about things you want him to improve, tell him the great things he does for you and give him the best sex ever and he'll never have a reason to go elsewhere.
2006-07-31 14:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by calif_dad.4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Lady, You have not mentioned your age & his age and duration of marriage. Always remember till you have interesting and interetsed partner age is no bar for sex. So be interesting and presentable. Be sweet and at times salty also. Have variety in sex. Go for oral sex - he will be more than happy. Please reply to a1aa69@yahoo.com
2006-07-31 01:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by a j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not put up with it anymore. He'll learn to respect you then. Write him a letter and ask him to move out, or find a place for yourself.
2006-07-31 02:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by It's Just Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does not sound like he is unhappy to me.he is acting that way towards you because he is cheating on you.but he wants you to feel sorry for him.don`t fall for that,he`s a jerk.
2006-07-31 01:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by Jam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋