this guy that I like but don't know how he feels about me is always wanting to help me with my problems and is always asking me if I'm having a good day..... he did ask me out last year but I had a bf...... does this sound like he likes me or is he just being nice? I'm going into 9th and I really need a bf that goes to my school instead of one that lives 500 miles away...... what do you guys think?
2006-07-30 18:25:31 · 12 answers · asked by Chaysee 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If you're wise, then you will seriously consider the advice of those who told you to wait.
You are going into ninth grade! Welcome to high school. If you date, then you're going to restrict yourself to a whole world of other people you may end up liking. Furthermore, you must be in your early teens if you're going into high school. Don't worry about it. You have time to grow up and start dating.
Also, do not put yourself in the position of chasing guys around. You are the girl, let the guy come to you. Most guys find it very awkward when a girl asks them out. I know that I would not date a girl who asked me out. It's odd!! Also, if you start looking for the guy, then no guy is going to ask you out because they'll expect you to do it. Or you might end up dating a lot of 'boys' instead of 'men' in your future. Let guys do the work. Be a girl, relax, paint your nails, and do that other girly stuff.
Please realize that girls often look too far into a guy's behaviors. A lot of girls sit there and analyze every move he makes when he is just minding his manners and nothing more. A lot of girls also hang onto every word a guy says, thinking that it is the clue or hint that they've been waiting for so they can ask the guy out.
A prime example is the one who said, "He likes you and that is why he is being nice." Sorry to tell you, but that's not necessarily true. I'm nice to all the girls I know because that's the way I raised. Just because I pass the salt to someone when asked doesn't mean anything.
To summarize the advice I've given you:
You're young. You have time to date. Let the guy pursue you. Don't overanalyze a person's actions. They might just be helpful.
Good luck in high school and waiting to date, hopefully.
2006-07-30 21:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by mwrc09 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There so many things to know,about good relationships in any relationship selfish reasons can come on the scene. You need to give him a respectful attitude and oppurtunity to get to know each other. At your age teens are always rushing slow down,and take the time to ask some intelligient questions, of him to find if he is the boy that will enhance your life. No need to be afraid better to know who you are giong out with than to get caught in something hurtful. LOOk for his motives.
2006-07-31 01:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you and that is why he is being nice.
Why do you need a boy friend that HAS to be in your school? You don't even need a Boy Friend. Okay.
He asked you out once, you turned him down, that hurts, so he is waiting for you to ask him to get together.
Just let everything work its self out. Go to school, do your assignments, and be happy that you have a good friend!
2006-07-31 01:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by 4mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should go out with the guy in your school, but, if you still remain close to your boyfriend five-hundred miles away you would definetly need to, shall we say, "settle" things with him first. I'm sure he'd be better off with someone near him as well.
2006-07-31 01:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by El Conejo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey love it does not matter how far away he lives its how much love you guys feel and stay connected with him always you are with him on weekends all through the week trust me i am the boy-Friend of a girl in north Carolina
2006-07-31 01:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by emo_lover_dude2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm not a guy. but I'm in the 8th going to 9Th. and i had a so called friend like the. and Hun, i think he does like you in a way that is more then friends. well i wope that you make the right choice and just ask him out and see if he likes you, well you know what i mean just ask him out. lol
2006-07-31 01:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asked you out last year, obviously he likes you still. Most guys stay close friends with the girl he likes a lot.
2006-07-31 01:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out ..he'll say yes im almost positive..hes probably hinting around rite now..gd luck wit it..luv ya!
2006-07-31 01:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u guys should go out sometime..and be yourselves..and talk abt havin a relationship..
2006-07-31 01:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by koolgirl_vava 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, I have done this, yes, he likes you.
2006-07-31 03:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by emoangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋