2006-07-30 18:22:19 · 10 answers · asked by JESSICA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
crawl under the bed and stay there
2006-07-30 18:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to decided which man you love more...It is not fair to lie to each of them. I do not believe you are ready to get married if you are in love with two men. I was engaged but had very strong feelings for another man. I broke off my engagement and
am working on what i want for me. It is not fair to marry someone just because you are engaged...Nothing good will come from it.
Don't worry about what other people say do what makes you the happiest. You are number one..good luck
2006-07-30 18:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by dolphin29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on if the other guy feels the same way. You could be in love with each other but for whatever reason, you will never find a way to be together. If that be the case, marry the man you are engaged to. You obviously love him too. Maybe the other one is just an infatuation.
2006-07-31 08:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by stacilynn26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you have a life with the one you do love? Would he marry you and live the life that you want to together? Do not get married. There is no reason to put the man you are engaged to thru the pain of thinking he is loved and beginning a life with someone who does not want him.
Could this just be cold feet or a phase?
2006-07-30 18:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by Amy >'.'< 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break your engagement. It isn't fair to your fiance for you to marry him if you don't love him. If you love both, you still need to break your engagement and wait until you grow up before getting married.
If you don't want to lose your fiance, then quit seeing this other man that you love - don't date him, don't be friends with him, don't see him at all. Eventually your feelings will pass and you can live a happy life with your husband.
That said - I'd at the least put off this marriage. It doesn't sound like you are ready.
2006-07-30 18:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by iahp_mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, do not get married! That will only cause more problems. Does the one that you love know about your feelings? If so, what does he say? Which one had you rather be with? I think you need to take a small break from the two of them and see which one you miss the most! That will tell you what is right for you! Good luck!
2006-07-30 18:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you need to know if the other man is in love w/you too....if he is then you should not marry the man your engaged to....if the other man is not available (i.e. married, etc.) then your still in a row boat w/no oar aren't you....in all fairness to the guy your engaged to, you should set him free to find a woman that will love him as he deserves. good luck.
2006-07-30 18:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by buggirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go elope with the one you do love!! and then happen to remember that you are already married to the one your ingaged to. I wish i had thought of this when i married my first hubby!! i was in love with someone else so i ended up getting divorced two months after marring the first guy cause i just couldnt stand him anymore. oh by the way me and the one i was in love with have been happily married for 6 years now and have 3 kids
good luck
2006-07-30 18:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by naightengale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry the one you’re engaged to. It would be dishonest of you to hurt him for another man. Let him know you do not love him and you love another. Pray to God before and ask him to guide your heart mind and spirit to let this man know.
2006-07-30 18:27:08 · answer #9 · answered by Michael JENKINS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately break off the engagement no sense in ruining his life cause u have no clue what u want ..
2006-07-30 18:35:00 · answer #10 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋