2006-07-30 18:13:50 · 9 answers · asked by tammy s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I loved him 4 yrs ago. He is 14 yrs younger than me and I know thats part of the problem. We get along like oil an water.
2006-07-30 18:24:48 · update #1
On and off relationships never work out well and often end in violence . Move on and find some one you can really love and not have any "offs" with . That is the way love is meant to be.
2006-07-30 18:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by jim d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a habit if you keep going on and off. It's love if you don't want to break up and work really, really hard at staying together. No relationship is easy; it requires constant dedication and communication to make it work. I've been with my husband for almost 10 years (married for 4). We broke up only one time for one week and from that point on we agreed to always work together. Good luck!
2006-07-31 01:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is when your doing something with out him do you wish he was there? when you see him with someone else do you want to strangle that person? When your with him do all your worries go away? OR do you find that it is just a boring routine that you could care less rather or not he was there and when you do stuff with him do you feel like its an obligation rather than a desire? just things to think about.. another thing is if your worried then maybe it is what you think and you dont want to admit it because of the time you've had together.
2006-07-31 01:19:59 · answer #3 · answered by twistedlifesmysteries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a bit of both. There is nothing wrong with it being a habit - there are good habits, you know. If you enjoy being with this person , it doesn't really matter. Just enjoy!
2006-07-31 01:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by moonmother2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear if you are the girl , is though , but if you are the guy , and you aren't trying to bang an other chick , you're still in love , you just have to think two things what is the special anything of this guy that nobody can offer me , and do i really picture myself with anybody else?
2006-07-31 01:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by bernardo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the answer to that. Is he someone you have fun with, someone you can't wait to tell things to, someone you think about a few times during the day? See....only you can answer this question.
2006-07-31 01:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this - Would it bother me if I saw him out with someone else? If you answer NO then you are in a habit relationship.
Also, ask yourself this - Can I see my future w/o this person - if you can answer yes - then he isn't for you.
2006-07-31 01:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE A COMFORT SITUATION THAT YOU HAVE
PUT YOUR SELF IN, THIS BACK AND FORTH IT NOT GOOD
AND YOU REALLY NEED TO FIND OUT WHY YOU KEEP
GOING BACK. UNTIL YOU REALLY FIND OUT WHAT YOU
WANT IN THIS RELATIONSHIP IF ANYTHING,OTHER WISE
YOU WILL CONTINUE IN THIS MERRY GO AROUND.
2006-07-31 01:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry tammy,but it sounds like just a habit to me !! i think its time to move on !!!!!!
2006-07-31 01:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋