A blogthings.com result told me: "You will suceed once you overcome the disappointments in life." It seems to me to be true. My disappointments bring me down, keep me from taking risks, discovery, building relationships, etc. What is the proper approach? How can I get control?
2006-07-30 18:12:02 · 8 answers · asked by downtowng1 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Disappointments are a result of mismatch between Aspirations and Talents.
Don't compare yourself to someone or somebody else. Every body in this world is special in his own way.
The problem begins when we start comparing ourselves with the strongest, smartest, Tallest etc.
You have to just take out time to list out you strengths and try to be more focussed on them rather than concentrating on your weaknesses.
2006-07-30 19:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by raven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you build your relationship by discussing openly and then you will see that every thing will go right and excellent. Just open up and take risk in making commitments.see here is a no 1 and the other 1 and if u will combine then it will become 2 wchich is a bigger unit and have bigger perspective of ev thing.So make it .Dont worry.If you will not give effort then how can you make a successful relationship .
2006-07-30 18:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mehbooba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book, "New Slant on Life" by L Ron Hubbard or you can go to your local Scientology org and take a course entitled "Overcoming the Ups and Downs of Life" -- a good place to start is reading the chapter on overcoming the ups and downs of life in the Scientology handbook. Its available free online here: http://www.scientologyhandbook.org/SH11.HTM Good stuff.
2006-07-30 18:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my life i have had many times where i fell flat on my face, and i have learned that getting up is the best way to deal with such things. If you don't try how will you know if you will succeed at it. Life and anything worth doing is very hard, but with the hard work come the sweet payoff in the end, but sometimes even though we work hard their is no payoff. I take comfort in my family and in my Friends and to a lesser extent in my dogs, they depend on me and i depend on them, it gives me great strength because they have faith in my life.
2006-07-30 18:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by sincity usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their is a saying i always say:
Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence.Prepare for the future without fear.
hopefully this will help.
2006-08-04 07:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by Kevinemy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see your parents or friends or your schoolmates, ect. they may give you some other feeling.
good luck. everyone can has same feeling sometime. that is will pass all and really. we shall overcome.
2006-07-30 18:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think POSITIVE. Be THANKFUL for every moment. Things will start to change after you do so.
2006-07-30 18:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by Kanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and put your faith in Jesus.
2006-07-30 18:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by Sad Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋