a straight guy im'd me the other day, one that i'd never met, and first propositioned me for cam 2 cam, and he was hitting on me and telling me how good looking i was after i showed him what i looked like on cam(no cyber took place), n when i told him i wasn't interested, that i was a happily married lesbian, then he started calling me all kinds of derogatory names that referred to my sexual preference, and started calling me ugly. why would someone im me out of the blue, knowing that it says on my profile that i'm a happily married *lesbian*, and then get mad when i turn him down?
2006-07-30 17:59:27 · 9 answers · asked by kelleygaither2000 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Your wife is lucky girl, she has an honest girl. Good luck and keep it up !
2006-07-31 01:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I am no advocate of homosexuality, that guy's response was clearly out of line. I can only surmise that he didn't read your profile carefully enough, and just wanted to date somebody. (or get something off of her, if you know what I mean...) I don't think that showing him your picture was a good idea, especially if you were married and he was hinting at dating. But either way, his moaning and whining after you told him that you were lesbian is just that- moaning and whining. He's just mad that he can't date you, and he probably tried to make himself feel better by saying that you weren't good enough anyway.
2006-07-31 01:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by ATWolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. you ruined his fantasy 2. you bruised his ego ..................but this leads to a question and possible 3rd answer if your're a happily married lesbian , why did you agree to cam2cam in the first place? that would make you a tease, not very nice . blue balls are no fun.
2006-07-31 04:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are pathetic egomaniacs that don't care if you are a lesbian. He obviously thinks he is so special that you would be willing to "convert" simply because he wanted you to.
Don't think about it a second further. Ignore him. Congrats to you and your wife.
2006-07-31 03:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys think they are God's gift and can "cure" people of their lesbianism. That's why they like lesbian porn so much -- they mistakenly see it as a chance to bed 2 women. When you crushed his fantasy, he turned nasty.
2006-07-31 01:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Nightcall 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, I don't know! I am sooo glad I don't have to worry about such things! Why would you want to let so many weirdos into your life via the computer that way anyway.
2006-07-31 01:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by chynna30_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you offended his heterosexuality by refusing to c2c with him. His poor little bruised ego could only respond with ignorant insults.
2006-07-31 01:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by rp_iowa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get this all the time many click on your name but cant be bothered to read your profile maybe because they cant read he was oviously a dick brain forget it it happens on line all the time
2006-07-31 01:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by norman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c he's a bigot and a tool.
2006-07-31 01:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by lifhapnz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋