am a 9th grader now. and I have liked a certian Girl, sience the 6th grade. She found out when i was in the 6th grade. but i was too shy around her to do anything about it. Now i know her, but am not reall a "Friend" as much as a person she knows. I do know her AIM. But am too shy to tell her that I like her. and i dont want to scare her away. I would like to talk to her in any other way than AIM. But i dont see her b/c its the summer. And i am going to a diffrent school than her this year. But still live in the same city. and I really dont know what to do. I cant look at a picture of any girl without thinking about her. She is the most important thing to me. I really just dont know what to do.
She is online on AIM now, but i can't seem to bring myself to tell her. And the only other way i know to tell her is Through Myspace.
Someone Please Help Me!!! I am in a Pickle, and dont know what to do :(
2006-07-30 17:48:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
"Can I take you out on a Saturday night?"
You won't need to say anything more than that.
Short, sweet, and easy on you and her.
Take care!
(Add to the details what she says! ;D)
lol
2006-07-30 17:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by flod_prfekshun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her through AIM if you have too. Just tell how you feel and that you understand if she doesn't feel the same way. If you don't say something now you'll regret it. Ihad a crush ona guy for two years and I told him through these notes that I wrote to him.[he was a grade older] . He said he haad a girlfriend, but in the end, i'm happy I got it out! It took a while, but I got over him eventually.
2006-07-31 00:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Yeahsx3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only in the 9th grade and guess if you never tell her it will not be the end of the world for you---but---if you do tell her and she rejects you then you have not lost what you never had--but if you don't tell her and lose her you have lost the chance that may never come again. So how much do you really care? Enough to put you pride and fear aside and tell her or not?
2006-07-31 00:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to group stuff, like a b-day party, or a Church activity if you go to church, or if nothing else, inviter her to come w/ you and a bunch of friends somewhere, that way you can at least see her and talk to her. You can take it from there. As for telling her how you feel, sorry, but I can't help you there...
2006-07-31 01:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by agfreak90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello, well it seems that there are two problems ur shy and scared ur shy cause u like this girl and your scared that she will reject u or not want to talk to you....what i think you should do coming from a girl...i think you should try to talk to her more...maybe go out for ice cream or movies maybe lunch dinner or breakfast go out for a walk or when school starts be study buddies or something try getting close to her little by little and as time goes by show her ur love and care...
2006-07-31 00:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her on aim who you are and strike up a friendship before you tell her how you fell you will scare her if you move too fast taake it slow but not for too long don't get too friendly because when you do tell her it will become too awkward be friends for a month the tell that you are starting to fall for her and see how she reacts
2006-07-31 00:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her. just get to know her and become her friend and then see where it goes. im her or send her a message on myspace.
what do you have to lose?
if she likes you back, then you will have the girl of your dreams. if not, at least you're switching schools so can move on and meet new people.
2006-07-31 00:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by Daisy® 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to AIM and IM her and ask her waz up ...Get a conversation going with her...She won't know if you like her if you don't tell her..She isn't psychic..at least you will break the ice and it will be easier to talk to her..Ask her out see what she says..............She might want to go out with you just as bad as you want to go out with her..Don't know until you try right?
2006-07-31 00:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if myspace is your only way then so be it....go for it!
dont sit around waiting and thinking what could or shouldve been...because by then some other guy would have taken her from you..
talk to her and just say hey i was thinking we should hang out sometime u seem pretty kewl blah blah! and take it from there:)
good luck!
2006-07-31 00:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by Moe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her! call her up on the phone if you can't get to her in person! and when you plan on saying it, SAY IT. don't chicken out. Be brave and do something. You can't ever love if you don't take a few risks.
2006-07-31 00:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by music_junkie_55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i found a website which is similar to myspace, http://www.friendscyberclub.com/ this website has all the features of my space like the photo upload, view pictures and profiles, forum, chat, message board, also there is a leader board, just like this one, see your name on the leader board, and you can also get to the top of the leader board, this site has both the features of yahoo answers and myspace,
2006-08-03 05:45:50 · answer #11 · answered by dev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋