my dad is depressed and sudicidal and he has threaten many times to leave us and never come back and that he didnt want to see me until i was 18 and my mom's house hold has told me tima and time again that i shouldnt be in the family and that iam not welcomed in the house and may i say this i where iam living right now....anyways my moms whole family ttreats me like crap becasue they dont like my boyfriend and that i tried to kill my self 7 months ago ...but they continue to call me crazy ...and so on! ....anyways my mom and her husband lie to each other constantly and cheat on each other and my moms house has no organization, is always hectic, and has no stability and she has also never held any type of disciplinary consistency. But she says that iam ganna have to fight her and my dad ....but i think that if iam on my own that my life will be so much easier in the sence of stress and depression and so on .....do you think i would win if i went up against them?
2006-07-30 17:38:43 · 15 answers · asked by calibabe0990 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Other - Politics & Government
You have may issues for such a young age.
Get professional help. PLEASE.
2006-07-30 17:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by redchili68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to start with how old are you? If you are 16 & under... You should turn your parents in for neglect.. If you are 17 + then you will prob win. But you must keep in mind life is not so easy out there to get emancipated you have to have a job & also show that can will be able to pay rent & so forth so before you go jumping off the deep end think about all your options.. Turning your parents in breaking up with your boyfriend getting some consoling which you should get weather you stay or go... Just take time out & think of all your options & do what is going to be best for everyone involved.. God Bless & Good Luck..
2006-07-30 17:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by s_haggard00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you do, but try standing strong. Many people come from worse backgrounds and they're still in their family/ or no family.
If you really have your heart set on emancipation, consult your boyfriend, ask for his opinion. Maybe it may bring you out of your rut first. But if that does not work, see your family lawyer, don't get into a great argument with your parents prior to contacting with your lawyer.
Good luck.
2006-07-30 17:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sounds like it would be better for you..but i suggest that you go and do some research at your local library about the whole process of emancipation and how to go about it..and make sure you get a lot of docunmentation and or evidence that supports your case...also go take to a guidance counselor or such...someone you can trust about the situation..good luck..but be very weary because in cases like this you always run the risk of becoming a ward of the state...so explore all your options and consider the consequences first..
2006-07-30 17:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by EvEl_LiL_kArEbEaR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to know, without really knowing your age.
However, you will get NOWHERE with emancipation without getting a lawyer
involved.
Your lawyer will be able to look at the details and give you a better
analysis than we can from here. Unfortunately, that will cost money.
However, if you are going to be emancipated, you're going to have to
get your own income. If you don't have a way to live, it won't work anyways.
2006-07-30 17:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you need to get a job if you do not have one. You need to be able to prove to a judge that you can take care of yourself. The next step is if the judge cannot find that you can take care of yourself you maybe sent to foster care until you turn 18. If your parents can prove their case then you will not be emancipated and will have to stay with one of them until you become an adult. I seriously doubt that a judge will allow emancipation if you have not completed high school yet.
2006-07-30 17:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Vira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. *struck dumb* Maybe try to call Social Services. You need alot of help. They might know a good place to start. God Bless you and good luck.
2006-07-30 17:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally! If they don't want you it's better for everyone if you just leave. Why even bother if they're just going to keep treating you like this. You always have a choice.
2006-07-30 17:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things are truly going this badly for you at home, then I would go ahead and try it.........You never know until you try, right??????? Some people just NEVER should be parents and I feel for you , dear.........Suicide is definately NOT the answer though..........
2006-07-30 17:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have a good case against them , for a win
Good Luck
2006-07-30 17:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately, I would do it as soon as I could! I hope you're ok hun!
2006-07-30 17:42:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋