I have been having sex with the same man for 5 years. I had sex with him within 45 minutes of our 1st date. We were both newly divorced and it had been awhile for both of us. He was married 26 years total. He is such a sweetie pie and I love every inch of him, but he cannot tell me what he likes. He acts almost ashamed to let it out. He gives me oral and will let me do it too, but I never know if what I am doing pleases him because he refuses to tell me what he likes. He says he likes whatever I do. Is he for real or what? How can I get him to loosen up a bunch and at least let out a moan or something.
2006-07-30 17:24:04 · 3 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi....
My suggestions:
1. Try licking the balls -- after sometimes, the penis head gets a bit insensitive esp when he's been married for more than 25 years. So try exploring the other parts -- balls, the line between the *** hole and balls...(i dunno the term)
2. Try playing with his nipples (both hands & tongue) - some men gets aroused by this.
3. Rimming - not sure it works but i got it once from a prostitute and hell...it was great...shared with few of my frens and they agreed too....so maybe you shud try too...a bit kinky though!!
4. Do you moan and show ur excitement while sex? If you do, do more to show him that is how ppl appreciate good sex - by moaning and making sounds...
Alrite...hope that helps!
Good Luck!
2006-07-30 17:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are like that. My ex-boyfriend was like that and I can understand how that would bother you. I suggest toys and doing something a little wild. I say buy a bullet and massage his balls with the vibrator while your giving him oral and it should bring out the beast in him.
2006-07-30 17:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Revea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lot's of looonnngggg ssllloooowwww foreplay...
2006-07-30 17:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by evemarkra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋