what is sexy?

Question

to you....what things turn you on the most in another person? is it only looks or more than that?

Answer 1

True, what everyone else said contributes to sexiness, but it really does come down to what's within. Certainly good looks help. A good wardrobe helps. Smelling good, having a good haircut, knowing your best features and playing them up (for men or women) -- absolutely, all this helps. But sexiness comes from one organ, and one organ only, the brain, and the rest of the body follows suit.

What's sexy is intelligence, knowledge and a passion for one's career or hobby or vocation. Sexiness is devotion to a cause, for the betterment of people and animals. Sexiness is all about helping, caring, peacemaking, getting along and making it easy and effortless for others to get along. Sexiness is a state of body but also and moreover it is that confidence and caring that comes from having a good mind and a good heart, and being unafraid to show those qualities to others.

So go ahead, admire a strong set of shoulders, beautiful hands, nice hair, lips, curves, a direct look and a hearty laugh and more... and then look deeper. That deeper look into the heart of a good, kind, intelligent person is where true sexiness resides.

Cheers, I hope this helps. -- K, 38 and not vain at all :)

Answer 2

I feel that it's a persons personality that's sexy to me. If there good looking that's a bonus. I also like tight butts on a man.

Answer 3

I like someone who's confident with herself. I also like kind people. Looks are nice, but 99% of girls can look really pretty with a little bit of effort, and some self awareness around what look works best them.

For some reason, I really dig rocker chicks and athletes, but only the nice ones =)

Answer 4

Way more than looks. Self-confidence, humor, good nature, generosity. I can probably list a lot of qualities that have nothing to do with looks. But then again, looking good and smelling good always help :)

Answer 5

Much more than looks... it is humor, intelligence, a great smile, twinkling eyes, strong voice, (to name of few things)... The sexiest men don't flaunt, don't brag, don't try to hit on everyone they see - there is some sort of presence about them that is impossible to put into words.

Answer 6

sex·y ( P ) Pronunciation Key (sks)
adj. sex·i·er, sex·i·est
Arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest.
Slang. Highly appealing or interesting; attractive: “The recruiting brochures are getting sexier” (Jack R. Wentworth).

Answer 7

The "sexiest" people in the world are where those are who have achieved eternal peace.....
....because "sexiness" [though commonly misunderstood] is not about looks or physical allure, but is ABSOLUTELY about human virtue. ♥

Answer 8

Self confidence

Answer 9

a woman with a rich laugh, who looks me in the eye and lets me know what she likes...very hot.

Answer 10

that certain " je ne cest quoi"
and look into my eyes when talking, along with a nice smooth voice.....And relaxed