Hey well First of I am not gay, bi, curious or anything else like that. I don't know what the hell happened. I was hanging out talking with my fiance's dad got really drunk, and the next morning I woke up naked in bed with him. I know what you're gonna say that how do I know that we actually did anything together. Trust me I know. I wont say how, but I know. I just don't know what to do. We're getting married next month. I know I have to tell her. I also know it's really gonna **** things up. I just don't know how to tell her, or what to do.
2006-07-30 16:43:49 · 14 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't see why you would have to tell her anything if nothing happened. Unless something really happened (and it's not of our business), then yes, you should. But getting drunk and waking up naked beside your father-in-law to be... you being a man... + nothing happened, I don't see what's wrong?! oh.. unless he is gay!!?!
2006-07-30 16:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get tested for AIDS before you do anything else. After that, decide what you should do. It sounds like he drugged you. Stay far away from the guy for life, he should be arrested but he probably knows that straight guys won't report it out of embarrassment.
2006-07-30 23:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Paula P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you have issues that really need to be told to your soon to be wife..Obviously your either Bi or just a closet person..Anyone in their right mind drunk or not you DON'T!!!!!!! sleep with your soon to be wife's father what the hell is wrong with you that's just frickin sick hope she throws your azz out the damn door Right to the curb where u belong!!!!!
2006-07-30 23:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by «~Mouse«~~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...if this is a REAL dilemma, it's pretty heavy.
one--you need to tell your fiance and yeah, it will complicate things, but there is a chance (though maybe it's small) that you guys will get through it.
two--you need to take a good look at yourself and what (or who) you really want in life. you slept with your fiance's father. first, he's male. second, he's her father.
don't know what else to say, but good luck and god bless
2006-07-30 23:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by annabanana4883 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.....
ok. damage control time.
Get married. Both of you move out.
Other than that. Keep your mouth shut and plan your next moves on this matter. don't go off half-******. Hope this helps 'cause this is one weird situation which needs a lot of thinking. Peace.
2006-07-30 23:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to re-evaluate yourself, you claim not to be bi, or gay. But what about DL. It sounds kinda strange to me that you didn't know what was going on. Unless someone slipped you something. I don't see how you didn't know what waz goin' on. You may need to postpone your wedding until you find yourself.
2006-07-30 23:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by t4king 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first thing first did you talk to her father? what did he say? maybe that's something you shouldn't tell her she's gonna think your a f****** sicko. Well I'm sorry but you screwed yourself on that one I hope you never plan on drinking again after that.
2006-07-30 23:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by xxxlostsocalgirlxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to tell her, i mean what would telling her accomplish anyways? just steer clear of the guy and lock it away and never tell anyone ever again.
2006-07-30 23:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by n4il_p0lish2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get that out of it, you don't need to ever drink!
2006-07-30 23:47:05 · answer #9 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her, u had some "male bonding" with her dad...that should give her a hint.
2006-07-30 23:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋