i had sex before with a women that was 9 yrs older then me?

Question

have some ever had experience something or close to this ...im only 14 at the time and she was 22

i live in miami ...it happens once in a while

Answer 1

Ok, hun, I have to tell you this, not because I am proud, but because I want you to look at this years from now, as I am. When I was 14, there was this 22 year old man, who I thought I loved very much. He was a handsome man who was waiting to be sent to boot camp for the Navy when I met him. I thought he was wonderful and so very attractive. I did have sex with him, many times before his deployment to boot camp. I thought it was awesome to be with someone so much older then me then... but I have to tell you that now I look back at it as he was a sick man to have wanted to have sex with me when I was stuck between woman and child. There must have been something so wrong with him that he couldn't have turned down a 14 year old girl, and decided that I was the one he wanted to be with. I am 27 years old now, and think if I ever ran into him again, he would have hell to pay when I got ahold of him. I am now a mother of a 6 year old daughter, and if any MAN tries to get her into bed when she is 18 or younger, I will hurt him very badly. You see, by him doing what he did, a part of my innocence was stripped away. No I was not a virgin at the time, however, the only time I had ever been touched by someone was when I was raped a year before that. Hun, please understand that there is something VERY wrong with her, and you will look back at this the same as how I do now when you are my age. There is NOTHING ok with having a grown woman touch you this way. Please understand, now it feels cool to tell your friends about this... later you will not be so proud and you will feel as though she has done nothing but take advantage of you. Do yourself a favor, and get as far away from her as possible. You will thank yourself later in life. (I know it is hard to think of yourself ever being 27, but you know, it feels like it happens overnight, and you are left with the shambles you have created or allowed to be created for you.) You are very capable of saying no to her hun, and it will be your best bet!

Answer 2

I must have been asleep. How did so many people ever get so uptight? Even in the 1950s they weren't this puritanical. OK. I hope the experience was a good one for both of you, but please do be careful who ou talk to about it in the future. She could end up in jail with a permanent record as a sex offender, along with bad people who commit murder and stuff like that.

Answer 3

well, closest thing to memory, is being 19 and she was 28, but then, we didn't have a thing going. Mostly just a try for luck date at college.
I'd say it depends on who she was....because a lot of states, that qualifies as statutory rape, and there might be additional charges.
I'd speak with your parents about it, and as well, find someone like a pastor to talk to you about what happened.

Answer 4

No doubt you think it cool, but there has to be something wrong if she is attracted to a 14 yr old kid.

Answer 5

well congratz but im still in shock im actually supriesd a 22 year old and 14 year old wow

Answer 6

Well shes going to jail - you just left evidence. The feds should be in contact in the next few days.

Answer 7

ummm....she crazy 4 havin sex with a 14 yr old

Answer 8

thats sad on her part younger men are fun but have 2 b 21 for me to play with

Answer 9

when I was 10 I ad sex with a thirty year old

Answer 10

She's the village bicycle! Everybody's had a ride.