If I knew a guy who was a compulsive liar,a cheater and other bad habits and hasn't changed a bit Would I?

Question

or any other person have the right to forewarn his fiance or should she find out on her own? I figured it be ggod to forewarn to save her from a disastrous marriage. what to do?

Merlyn you obviously can't read my dear.I never said I was dating this guy.Sounds like your a bit slow.Know what you're talking about before you say anything

Answer 1

nothing. you don't need to say the obvious. if she doesn't see his faults, maybe she doesn't want to, or she may think she can change him. her life is her own, not yours. she must live it, not you. she may need to go forward for a reason you are not aware of. remember, silence is golden. if it turns sour, then she has to deal with it, not you.

Answer 2

I think that would be very improper to discuss this person with their current lover/girlfriend/fiance/whatever. Just because you have had a bad time with them does not necessarily mean the next one will. Maybe they like that kind of thing. Maybe he was only that way with you. Maybe you two were just exceptionally incompatible. You should just remain happy in the fact that he is in someone else's life now and out of yours. Let the new woman judge for herself.

Answer 3

How well do you know her? Can you present it in a caring and positive way or will it be done with guile and anger? Search your soul for your true motivation.

Answer 4

keep out of it, only a woman should speak to a woman about these things . or are you a woman. i would think he would show his true colors in time. maybe someone could help him along by tempting him to show is true colors in front of her. maybe she knows, hard to say.

Answer 5

depends, Is he good in bed? cause really thats the hard thing to find in a marriage

Answer 6

My advice is to say nothing. I say this, as unless she is a very close friend, she would probably not appreciate or beleive you.