Me and my bf have been together for 4 yrs but i just have this feeling he has done something behind my back and i want him to admit it but i know he wont cause he's scared he will loose me. what should i do
2006-07-30 16:32:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok so sit his butt down and tell him you think that maybe he has done something because.......... and let him know whatever it is that makes you think that... then tell him you dont want to lose him and you dont want him to lose you.... ask him what it is you should both do to solve how you are feeling..
2006-08-03 12:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's the difference? You haven't found out what you want to know if you ask him and he does not tell you. You can continue in the relationship with this question mark over your head all the time. Either way, you don't have an answer. The only thing to do is try to talk to him and decide from there if you are okay with whatever answer he provides. Only you can make that decision.
2006-07-30 16:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it is in the past, let it go. You don't want to know. Once you know, you can't take it back. What you don't know won't hurt you. Even my mother who is very conservative, says she could forgive a man of one indiscretion, as long as it was one. It's better that you don't know for sure because it will change the way you feel about him. Drop it and trust he is telling the truth. A relationship has to to have trust. If he is continuing to do something behind your back, then it will come out eventually. The truth always comes out. But if it is one mistake (and he is aware that he WILL lose you), then leave it alone, trust he's telling the truth and go on with your 4 year relationship.
2006-07-30 16:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by giselehere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why you always have 1 or 2 on the side. Never give yourself to just 1 person. This way if she cheats you always have a spare. Also a 2 in the morning booty call. You really need to learn how to play the game. You need to keep him guessing otherwise the thrill of the chase is gone. Tjhen what?
2006-07-30 16:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by David R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're paranoid if you think he has done something you have no proof of.
Perhaps it is time HE break up with YOU, no?
2006-07-30 16:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by The B Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being too long with him makes u feel so. if this is the case then take a break .take a vacation alone. he will come back to u.If u have a valid reason to doubt him then confront him. its better then beating around the bush.
2006-07-30 16:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and say something like "I think you've done something behind my back and its ok if you're really sorry, I won't dump you if you truly love me
2006-07-30 16:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with him and ask very nicely if there is something you need to know about. or just sit down and you both come clean. (I'm not saying you did any thingy wrong).
2006-07-30 16:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man screw what these people are telling you.....you’re not crazy or paranoid, my mama always said go with your gut! My gut has never been wrong....so with that said, check his cell phone every man gets caught through his cell phone! (Sorry fellas I had to tell her the truth!)
2006-07-30 16:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by Erik R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him questions like if he still loves you and if he really means it possibly talk about the future
2006-07-30 16:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by Kasia G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋