2006-07-30 16:20:39 · 27 answers · asked by WomanCandy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Don't do it ---- period. . . Ask her to get her tubes tied. . .
2006-07-30 16:24:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless there is a medical problem that you may pass on to your children hold off on a vasectomy until you are at least thirty. You may not want children now but at twenty you have many more years to change your mind! What you want now and what you want ten years from now can change drastically. You may not be with the same partner in ten years and your new partner may be someone who desperately wants children, and somebody you desperately want to have children with. Don't be talked or dragged into anything that cannot be undone. Contrary to popular belief a vasectomy is not easy to reverse.
2006-07-31 00:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say No! You are only 20 and the whole world can change in the next few years. I know so many people, including some family, that swore at your age that they would never want kids. Guess what; they now have beautiful children that they would not trade for anything and want more! If you do something permanent, now, you may regret it terribly and resent your future wife for it. There are many ways to prevent pregnancy until you are more aware of what you want out of life.
2006-07-30 23:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by Myr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are married before you entertain a vasectomy.
2006-07-30 23:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by NaijaPrincess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a very smart fiance. In today's world nobody should have kids these days. Just look around the mess the world is in -- wake up.
2006-07-30 23:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried to get one when I was 22 but I didnt end up getting it until I was 28. It was the smartest thing I ever did. I shudder to think about what could have happened before I got it. I recommend it.
2006-07-30 23:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by Phil S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not her decision to make. What if, you both break up in the future and you meet someone else that you will fall in love with and want to have children, you will not be able to. So, think about it, the decision is entirely up to you, it is your body, and you will be under the knife not her.
So think about it! because later on in life, you just might regret it..
2006-07-30 23:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not but if you do they have come a long way in the reversal process. i think this is very self fish of her. tell her to get her tubes tied. i love children and believe they are the only sane thing on this earth.
2006-07-30 23:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by m.w.meredith@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse, if the marriage doesn't work, you may want children some day. Why doesn't she have something done? I dont think a doctor would do it for someone so young.
2006-07-30 23:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are way too young. How old is your fiance? I would wait until you guys are actually married.
2006-07-30 23:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by mommyaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you have too many years left to change your mind. Use another type of contraception or a combination of types.
2006-07-30 23:22:52 · answer #11 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋