How would you handle yourself know that they know you said that you think that they aren't a sincere person.
2006-07-30 16:14:57 · 8 answers · asked by Smiley 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
You might want to sit down and talk with the boss and be honest. Admit that you made a mistake and that you have learned from it, and ask for forgiveness. Then go on with a lesson learned.
2006-07-30 16:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by BluedogGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a problem you face when you talk ABOUT someone instead of talking TO them.
The most honest way to handle this, although it's going to be very difficult for you, is to go to your boss, and ask if you can speak with them. Tell them that YOU were wrong in speaking about them to another person.
You're not going to save your butt on this one, and if you try to weasel out of it, the boss is going to see it as personal butt saving and not sincerity.
When you talk to him/her, if given the opportunity, give the reason why you said what you did, apologize for your actions, and assure them that it will not happen again.
Best of luck!
2006-07-30 23:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by Amy N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they comfront you about it simply say "the email wasn't intended for you but that was how I truly felt at that time and either still do or don't"( you decide the last part of the statement). Just end it at that.....They can't fire just because you don't like them. Most people don't like their co-workers. Only if your dislike for them is effecting your work ethic can they do something about it.
2006-07-30 23:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put anything into writing that you don't mean. Be precise in all accusations you make, so there's no argument about what problem you're addressing.. Then, if confronted with something you wrote, it will be something you believe, so stand up for it.
If you're just making whiny and vague malicious trash-talk about people, you get what you deserve.
2006-07-30 23:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by dimbulb52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must change the way you think and speak. Do not say anything that you wouldn't want repeated no matter how private you think the conversation will be kept.
Secondly, do not say anything about anyone in their absence that you wouldn't say in their prescence or say to them directly.
2006-07-30 23:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever say these things on computers at work , your boss has the right to read everything that goes through computers at work , wise up , you will lose your job if you arent careful
2006-07-30 23:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
any e-mail you send or receive at work is their property. so it is intended for them. after all they pay you to generate and or read it!
start looking for a new job. you are going to need it! you could try to kiss up and apologize but you will never be trusted again.
2006-07-30 23:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by justnotright 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oops, act like it never happen
2006-07-30 23:19:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋