i'm too shy to let him know
2006-07-30 16:11:58 · 30 answers · asked by kimmy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You say . . .
Do you know that I am very shy? and some things are very difficult for me to say to you? The most difficult one is . . . I luv you (I think).
Then, once you've broken the ice, and he is still within speaking distance ('cause he didn't run off screaming or laughing hysterically), you can tell him all the feelings you experience when being around him, or thinking about him . . . simple.
Are you really afraid that he will laugh at you, or not want to see you again, or spend time with you - because he won't appreciate you caring about him in this way???
Waiting and wondering won't fix your problem -- just do it, girl.
2006-07-30 16:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kimmy-
You asked how do you tell your boyfriend you are in love with him? Well...if you truly believe it, you just tell him. What's wrong with that? There are too many women that are still stuck on "playing hard to get" and those are often the ones that lose the love of their lives. Girl, just tell him. Why not? If he isn't in love with you, will you be mad? If so, keep your mouth shut.
2006-07-30 23:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by kb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just my idea:
cook him dinner, candles, look really nice
grab his hand and tell him exactly how you feel
face to face is always better even if you are shy
but you can always try in a nice note/card/letter
i would like the first one better if i was your bf though
2006-07-30 23:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by iWorkonComputers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, take him into a room, alone, the phone of the hook, and no interupptions, be calm, and lok him in the eye and say look hons iam in love with you badly it sounds like this is your first and true love, take him, in to a private room, and just start talking ot out, hold his hand it may be a shock to the systemm for him okay give him time if he dosent anwswer okay, let him think it overr okay, give a male his space tell him straight out, but do it in private okay etc, dont be shy look in a mirrowe and practice what i haVE TOLD YOU FIRST OKAYY
GOOD LUCK HONS!! DAVEEY AND STEVIE
2006-07-30 23:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can write him a letter telling him how you feel if your to shy to tell him straight to his face also add that you were nervous on telling so you felt more at ease writing him how you feel
2006-07-30 23:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by Connie E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about a threesome? Kidding. If he feels the way you do would be the best. A card would be nice. (mushy sorta) Talk or write about the things you did together that were memorable.
2006-07-30 23:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
email me at mdrieber00013@yahoo.com. what im gonna need is details. how long have you guys been going out? how far have you guys gotten intamately? how old are you? im not trying to be nosey or anything, but saying i love you can sometimes mess up a relationship.... so, just lemme know what you can and are comfortable with, and ill try to help ya out.
2006-07-30 23:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by mdrieber00013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be shy to tell him about your feelings. there's nothing wrong with it. or if you are really shy, just show it. THey say "action speaks louder than voice"
2006-07-30 23:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by snoopy_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, I was shy, being shy is a wast of time. (good luck)
2006-07-30 23:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by Kid Pecatonica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first ya need to go on a romantic date then ya start talking I suggest you to ask him how he feels about you depends on his answer if he say He likes tell him if he says he loves you definatley tell other then that you are on your own
2006-07-30 23:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋