do you think it's wrong?

Question

do you think it's wrong when my wife talks to me and if i'm not in the mood to talk to her that i just ignore her instead of just telling her that i'm not in the mood to talk

Answer 1

You know, once, and I say once in a great while if you're on the verge of arguing or getting ready to dive into a subject that you don't want to, it would be ok to say you'd rather not talk about now. But saying it a manner that you'd want to be talked to only--that is polite.

If you do this more than once in a while, or often, and or, you're sarcastic and rude, then simply put. you're an abusive a**hole.

Hope it isn't the latter...................

Answer 2

Would you want to be ignored by her? I hope not. Part of marriage is communication. If you are not in the mood, let her know gently and set a time aside to talk. But make sure first that what she needs to talk about is not so important that putting it off (like she is depressed or upset) will cause the women you love more pain.

Answer 3

Wow. How small you must make her feel. It's a good thing your married to her and not to me.

Your wife deserves respect. The same as you would, if you were respectable.

When she is talking, it's because she wants to hear from you, maybe she wants your opinion or just to know you care enough to listen to her ramble.

If your not into being a part of that relationship (which includes talking to her, and listening to her talk) then there is a problem that is much more deep seeded than you realize.

Answer 4

Yes it is wrong! If you are not interested in talking to her tell her that and explain why you are not interested, don't just say I'm not in the mood. The number one cause of divorce today is the lack of communication in married couples. Don't become a statistic and simply communicate with your wife.

Answer 5

Most men are afraid when a woman says we need to talk. Talking doesn't mean it's going to be bad. When you come home you should start talking to your wife a little bit about work, a little bit about what her day was like, and make plans when the kids go to bed to do something. Sit on the porch and talk but talk about anything. She has no adult companionship during the day and she needs it when you come home. Don't shut her out.

Answer 6

How does your wife respond to this? I would feel that I was being cut out of my husband's life and he did not want to share it with me. She may feel that she is not interesting enough for you to talk to.

How hard can it be for you to simply tell her that you are not in the mood to talk to anyone, and you will talk to her later when you have had time to relax?

Answer 7

yeah very wrong you not being in the mood to talk might lead her in the mood to find someone who does like to talk. if you aren't in the mood to talk calmly say hey I just would like some quiet time right now can we discuss this later?

Answer 8

I think it's really wrong. I'm your wife and you can't even tell me to my face. I don't know about you sometimes. Feel lucky I have a sense of humor and I love you!
Kisses from the wife you like to ignore.
Ha! Ha! Ha!

Answer 9

Would you like it if she ignored you when you wanted to say something to her?

Women talk more than men, in general. It's a way they share. I know it's tough, but try to listen to her and make some appropriate comments. You don't need to "fix" her problems, she really just wants to know you're listening and you care.

Answer 10

Yes,that is your wife,she at least deserves a explanation why you don't want to talk to her.If she did that to you,you would be fired up.The best thing you can do is give her all of your attention when she's talking to you.Just as you would want her to do.The relationship will go smoother if you give her that respect.