Like once a week, twice, etc. I would seriously like to know!
2006-07-30 16:01:24 · 18 answers · asked by R. B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
whatever span of time seems right for them...
2006-07-30 16:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this question is never cut and dry.. It depends on each individual, how much you are attracted to each other, your work and family schedules, etc... There are so many factors.. There are times that my husband and I are 3- 5 times a week and then sometimes once every 3 weeks.... It doesn't mean that we don't love each other, in fact, when we wait that long, the next time we do it, it is that much more incredible.. But there are things you can do in betweent the "waiting".. My husband makes sure I don't go without toys to play with when I'm in the mood and he's not available.. In return, I do things that he enjoys...etc.. etc...
I would suggest talking to your spouse to see what tickles their fancy and see what you can do to get each other in the mood more often...And no matter what, don't listen to the guys that say somthings wrong if your not getting it once a week.. theres not really any truth to that.. Every relationship is uniqe and you can;t put a time frame on love..
2006-07-30 23:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by Deu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are a peculiar animal. We think to ourselves, that we're tired or we don't feel good and we can always have sex tomorrow. It's not that we don't want to have sex, it's just not a priority when you got a hot filet mignon next to you every night. The way to a women's libido, trust me, is to do the little things. Follow these steps and let me know if you get laid: Cook dinner and wash the dishes and compliment her on what a great "person" she is and elaborate with meaning. Pick flowers from the yard and clean them and arrange them in a vase for her but don't tell her they are for her, just put them on the counter. Leave a post it note in a few places that she goes without you, like the car, and the bathroom, saying "I'm thinking of you and I love you, love -----. After these events have happened, that night, if it feels right, or the next, make a move and keep trying, don't take no for an answer, unless no is really no. Females like to play hard to get and be pursued like prey - just watch the tigers and other animals how they mate. The male comes after the female, the female growls, then the male continues to try and try until the female wears down and submits. Believe me, the woman feels great after this whole process. After all, we are all animals. Good luck.
2006-07-30 23:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by giselehere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seven days a week! Once in the morning and again in the evening! All day long on the weekends! Thats until the first kid happens. Then.......your down to twice a week and three times if your doin' good. If you need it more you need to go hands on or get a girlfriend or boyfriend on the side. The girlfriend or boyfriend thing usually backfires though the hand never tells. Stick with the hand.
2006-07-30 23:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends . . . do they have children? * LOL * We go from a few times a week to a couple of times a month. It really depends on how busy we are. The good news is that frequency doesn't necessarily make an accurate indicator of whether something's wrong with the relationship. As long as the couple is communicating, then they will have sex when they find the time.
Good luck!
2006-07-30 23:12:06 · answer #5 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a healthy relationship, I don't see any reason that the couple should go without unless it's a menstrual time or there is an illness or an injury that prevents love making.
2006-07-30 23:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would a married couple have to go without making love if they didn't want to? It should be mutual decision it takes two to do that. If she doesn't want to the man should feel enough respect for her that she just isn't in the mood, sick, or just tired. In a marriage there isn't an ownership tag that states you have to have sex or anything at a certain schedule.
2006-07-30 23:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(*laughter*) It depends on how long you've been married and if you're inclined to play those little control games...you know the one...where one of you says "no" and then the other one won't ask again.
I have to agree though...if it's longer than a week or two...then you may have some issues going on. Unless there's an illness, a pregnancy, or some real stress going on.
2006-07-30 23:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no speicific time frame for you as a couple to make love.it all depends on how both of you feel about it.sometimes it may be more often than at other times.there are many factors that affect our desire to make love like stress,worries,being unwell etc.infact its better not to think too much about this aspect as this actually diminishes the desire and u may not even be able to perform as expected.just follow your physical feelings as n when they come to u.
2006-07-30 23:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by shabirnc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it at least 3 times a week.
2006-07-30 23:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a reasonable time frame.... well, a married couple should do it however many times possible in one week that they
a. both get pleasure out of it
b. dont wear themselves down
c. dont get fed up with it
time frames vary, so with this, you can make your own.
2006-07-30 23:07:02 · answer #11 · answered by mdrieber00013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋