2006-07-30 16:00:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
blokes are not big on the whole romance thing....
just accept it ...
if he didnt love you he wouldnt say it...
2006-07-30 16:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all he is doing is telling you that he loves you, and not showing you that's a big indicator. He should be opening doors, holding your chairs, helping you with your coat, and just making you feel totally comfortable about being in his presence. If you don't feel the love there is no love. If he loves you you don't have to ask, you would already know by the look in his eyes.
2006-07-30 23:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Earl L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Words are easy to say. "I have 3 arms," can be said, but it doesn't make it true. Does he do anything for you that makes you feel loved? Does he do things that may be uncomfortable or inconvenient for him, just so you'll feel good? Maybe you need to tell him what he needs to do to make you feel loved. After all, actions speak louder than words.
2006-07-30 23:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you hear alot of people trying to either tell you he does'nt or he does but really you'll really be the one to know the answer to that Question. But the real question is do you love him only then you'll know the truth about your relationship. Tell you the truth you can't really trust the answer you see hear on this website, I know I don't know him but all these others don't either and that's the truth.
2006-07-30 23:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by Blu_ghost09 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex used to say it to me...but it never had any feeling behind it and he always made me feel bad about myself. Sometimes I thought he only said it to make me happy.
Actions speak louder than words!!!
My fiance says it ALLLLL the time, but he shows me by treating me with respect, making me feel good about myself and comfortable. If he doesn't show it, he's not worth it. Anyone can SAY I love you....but a real man would prove it! :)
2006-07-30 23:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys cant show feelings that well and well if we say we love you...we do. girls say i love you and have an easier time saying i love you than any guy ever could.
some things to look for:
- does he go with you to your parents house?
- does he like being with your family?
- does he like being with your friends?
- does he call you, instant message you, text you and all that first...before you do?
- does he spend alot of his time with you?
if you answered yes to those...then he def. loves you.
2006-07-30 23:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by iWorkonComputers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day he'll prove it to you. Some people just know how to express love in word format and given time may be able to show it.
2006-07-30 23:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember actions speak louder than words.
2006-07-30 23:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he do anything for you ? take you out? give you brekky in bed on your birthday? help you in the house ? you're really lucky he tells you , many men find it very hard to say ''i love you ;; .what do you want ? blood?
2006-07-30 23:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by clrdanlob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys wont even say it unless they really mean it but he loves you if he shows he cares and he is nothing but nice to you.
2006-07-30 23:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to say...and hard to live.
So, if he says the right words, but his actions don't back it up...either you have really tough expectations, or he doesn't.
2006-07-30 23:02:31 · answer #11 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋