Why I cant get along well with people?

Question

Hi all,

I believe I am a friendly girl always trying to be nice to everyone. i don't have much female friends but I have lot of male friends. I am not saying male friends are not nice but no matter what i am still a girl, i wish to have more female friends, I dun really know what the problem with me. some girls tend to take advantages on me if i am too nice. sometime i really prefer male than female friends. Perhaps i am a boring person without much topic, i am much toward indoor, dun like to go window shopping, is that the reason? Or pls simpily teach me how to get along with girls?

I really appreciate all the replies =). Thanks a lot

Answer 1

ok for one let me tell you, guy friends are in most ways better than girl friends. but if you really want more girl friends, just talk to your guy friends girlfriends. more than likely youll have something in common with them and they will be easier to get along with and talk to. girls just cause a lot of drama though, so idk. ive always liked hanging out with guys better. they dont tell your business to everyone, they never like your crush or boyfriend (means you dont have to worry about a friend messing with your guy), easier to talk to about problems, and cheer you up a lot faster than a girl would. a guy changes the subject (because he really wasnt listening anyway) and a girl just goes on and on about her problems and how she wishes someone would understand her.... yada, yada yada. hope this helps.... even if its just a little!

Answer 2

What I alway say is. Ask someone that's close to you such as a very good female friend or sibling etc. what it might be. Sometimes we think we are nice but then we may have an attitude or just something that turn people off, that we are not aware of. I had the same problem a few years ago. I am a shy person and because I wasn't as outgoing, alot of people thought that I was proud. I asked someone and they told me that was the impression they got when they first met me. Only to find out I am one of the most down to earth persons, only shy. So try that, you may never know!!!

Answer 3

I believe tt it is bcoz of your character tt you dun have much lady friends. It isn't your problem or other ppl problem. Being a indoor person isn't the main reason. As a friend, we should readily accept the character of our new friends, they can be a indoor person or outdoor person.
Sometimes U have to join your female friends in their gathering so tt they will not forget U in future. So when U start this move,I believe tt in future your female friends will call U up whenever they wants to go out for gathering. Dun change yourself to suit your friends coz everybody have their own character. All the best to u

Answer 4

Just be pleasant and nice as you seem to be always. Don't be too critical and give honest complements when necessary. Ask one or two to accompany you to lunch sometimes or donut shop. Offer to treat them. Try little things like that.

Answer 5

gurl u r not the only wit this issue trust i have alot of male friends and very lil female friends simply because females talk too much and cause way too much drama

Answer 6

If you have to change ourselves in order to have more female friends, will you be happier going out with them? Just be yourselves, friends should be people we feel comfortable with.

Answer 7

you are ok just be your self and what every happen happen dont try to change any thing about your self.

Answer 8

you are Lucky at least you have Friends

Answer 9

compatibility is the answer, find someone with the same interest as you... maybe me?

Answer 10

i am the same way there isn't anything wrong with it