He is my classmate during my fourth year highschool. he courted my friend,Sally. he asked me if i could be their "bridge".and I did.And then,after 3 months of their relationship,they broke up coz he thinks that Sally doesn't trust him anymore.
our relationship is really like we are bestfriends. he even told me his family's secret. He even told me that he is fooling around with other girls aside from Sally. And he keep on telling everyone in our classroom that i am the only girl in the class that he really trust.
then, after a month, he courtd Hannah (one of my friends also) And i became their "bridge" again. as time goes by, i think im falling in love with him because of his good attitude towards me.
but im afraid to let him know about this. I'm afraid that he would stay away from me.we are now in college, we hav diferent schools,we dont have communications and I really missed those times that we hang out! i missed specially him!I have his phone number, should i call&tell him?or not?
2006-07-30 15:22:43 · 8 answers · asked by snoopy_06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell him. Its now or never, although it might jeopardize ur friendship.
2006-07-30 15:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by daydream♥believer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok ok ok ok wait a min! 1st thing: "He even told me that he is fooling around with other girls aside from Sally" - these are your words. You are falling in love with a guy who does this to your friends?? You kidding me? Not being mean but surprised. That doesn't even seem to bother you. He can trust yea but you can't trust him. Plus he doesn't he is using you to get to other girls? I do not see how you could love someone like that but women are a odd beings I will never understand...lol. Plus he dated friends. You dn't want that. Thats a bad bag of apples all in itself.
Good luck to you!
2006-07-30 15:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by Chef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude did you say that he was fooling around with other girls while dating this sally dude big no no if he cheat on one girlfriend what make you think he wont cheat on you secondly most friendship are ruin by dating so if you date him and he hurt you wouldnt trust him as easly love is an emotion that is more pain then anything else i should know i dated on of my friend and i dont trust with nothing no more cause cheated on me
2006-07-30 16:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by Connie E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i experienced that before... dont tell him anything you feels at this time. because there will be a right time for that. boy-girl friendships is really great but because we girls easily get inlove with someone who can trust you, someone you can talked anything, and someone who cares a lot. but sometimes we dont understand why there are doing that, but if you asked them because they really care the friendship you both established.... just go on with your friendship dont expect alot. God bless
2006-07-30 15:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by nej24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever date your friends ex.Thats number one is the do not date... book.Its causes so many friendship problems with you and sally
2006-07-30 15:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u love him. He's ur best friend and I think u're not used to being alone in a new school. U're just obsessed with him
2006-07-30 15:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by Rainy_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chef is right and i dont see anywhere that u sayed what he likes about u
2006-07-30 15:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by Edvard F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him discreetly, you love him
2006-07-30 15:24:51 · answer #8 · answered by decoder109 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋