should i wait until he pays his part of the rent before i put him out of my new home i just bought?

Question

I have a live in boyfriend and on x-mas we got into a argument and he spent the night at his moms the following day he came home and i would not talk to him so he tryied to put me out of our old home by using force after i asked him to leave me alone atleast 10 times and to take his hands off me i finaly picked up a vase and pushed him then (as he followed me) i went into the kitchen and got a knife and put it to his throt and told him not to put his hands on me anymore or i would kill him (oh yeah! it was 28degrees outside and all i had on was a pair of short -shorts and a halter top no shoes or jacket) i grabed his keys and backed out the door jumped in his car and went to his mothers house well the point of telling you all of this is he called the cops on me and they charged me with CDV i had to plead quilty Friday to keep from going to jail (I didn't have a witness) and i have a 16yr son. now i have to go to anger management and i am on probation, well he don't want me to leave him

Answer 1

After putting charges on you, he is still living with you. Wow, I thought only women were doing stuff like that.
I think that your anger might be coming from him - may be he made you go through so many things that you have enough now and as soon as something goes wrong, memories of your past with him come back to your mind and you explode. If what you want is to live without him, then yes you should tell him to move out now. But are you trying to buy time before you put him out? My guess is that money does not have much to do in all this...

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Parents have each and every correct to cost grown kids residing at house hire it doesn't matter what the mum or dad's economic crisis is. What ever else they spend THEIR cash on is relatively none of your corporation and it relatively does no longer topic if they don't truthfully want the cash from you to make ends meet or no longer. Requiring anybody to pay hire is NOT almost desiring the cash. As a mum or dad they most often simply wish to train you to be dependable & that not anything comes without spending a dime on this lifestyles. Once the children are grown & on their possess, it isn't a mum or dad's activity to preserve their hand any longer or to aid them get monetary savings.

Answer 4

This is what I call a worthless man. Get him out of your life. Let the people at Anger Management know that HE is the problem. I understand your problem fully, I was attacked on Halloween by 6 costumed people. I was repeatedly kicked and beaten and no one deserves to be treated like this. Good luck.

Answer 5

I ALWAYS counsel women NEVER TO TOUCH A MAN. NEVER HIT A MAN. If he is threatening you then YOU dial 911 and have him removed from the home. If he is continually abusive then get an order of protection.

You threatened him and he had a right to call the cops on him. You had a knife to his throat. That's scary. There is nothing healthy about this relationship.

Answer 6

No honey, you are done. Just finish it and send him on his way. Don't make it about the money, you have a much higher worth than the few bucks for rent or bills. You will feel the power of your own self freedom and taking charge. Just do it. Good luck

Answer 7

For what is it worth I would not worry about the Rent , I would put his things out/ or at his Moms house and have the Locks changed. If need be get a restraining order against him and keep a log if he comes around bothering you. Like you said it is your House.

Answer 8

Juicy,

Sounds like anger management is a great place for you to get some clarity on your life. Don't waste the opportunity.

Answer 9

In this type of relationship, what is he doing in the new house that you just bought in the first place?

Answer 10

yes you should make him pay rent first

and i agree with the first person we did not need to the know the rest of your business but good luck with that situation.