2006-07-30 14:52:48 · 33 answers · asked by speddy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, it's difficult but you must understand the circumstances, have faith it won't happen again, and forgive the offense.
2006-07-30 15:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by bbikin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been there twice with the same man, I tried my hardest to trust him the first time because I loved him so much, I thought things were going great, BAM, he did it again, we were together for 7 years , I had no idea he was cheating when it happened, both times.
I say let him go, I know that is easier said than done, but trust me, he WILL do it again. I wish you luck and hope you find your happiness in another guy. There is someone out there meant just for you and you will find it eventually.
Don't be a fool, I know what that feels like.
Good luck sweetie, and I feel your pain, but let him go. ooops...not sure if you are male or female, but this answer goes both ways..sorry
2006-07-30 15:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once the trust is broken it is very hard to regain trust. I think if they cheat on you, you will always have that thought in the back of your mind. A relationship is never the same after someone cheats.
2006-07-30 14:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the person. People are really animals with a conscience and the ability to make decisions. I believe a person is capable of making a mistake, learning from it, and becoming a better person as a result.
On the other hand, some people are just liars and cheaters, no matter how apologetic they are you need to find out if they've EVER done it before. If they have, they are prone to repeat their behaviors... hey, they had a chance already to learn from a mistake and have proven they are going to be a liar forever.
2006-07-30 15:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by chris m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters can change if they want the relationship to work and they see that they are going to lose it. It is harder for you to trust them again than it is for them to stop cheating.
2006-07-30 14:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by van 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always trust that they will cheat again. Does that help you?
2006-07-30 14:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so.
No matter how sorry they are, or how much they swear they won't do it again, if you forgive them then somewhere in the back of their mind they know they got away with it. When they think they've done their "time" making it up to you, the wandering eye will start again.
That's just my belief, from personal experience.
2006-07-30 14:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, as a rule, no. If they feel the need to cheat then their love for you is in doubt. Let them be in doubt alone rather than be with you in pain.
2006-07-30 14:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by The Good Humor Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.... but it takes a long long time....
its up to you wether you think your relationship is worth the effort, have you only been dating a short time, are you married????
Is your partner is willing to find out why they feel the need to cheat (i.e relationship counselling)
2006-07-30 14:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by Corsetry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
H double hockey sticks no!!!!!! absolutely no!!!!! believe me if u forgive them once they will do it again because they think that they got away with it the 1st time so save yourself the heartache and dump that loser the 1st time around!!!!
2006-07-30 14:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by moetstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋