ok well ima 14 year old female and im bisexual do u think this is a faze im going threw? cause some times im like OMG i like girls whats my problem then other dayz im like Oh yeah BI PRIDE!!!! but i like butches mostly (butches are girls that looks like boys) so some people say no u dont like girls u only like them cause they look like boys but i tell them but i like tittys and stuff too soo how can that be! well ok jus tell me you opinons on this PLEZ!!
2006-07-30 14:41:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
look B**** im not worried about sex no body said anything about sex here im jus saying im attracted to both sex's!
2006-07-30 14:51:24 · update #1
i have tryed datein both sex's but im still un sure on what i really want i think....
2006-07-30 15:20:42 · update #2
i been bi or thinking im bi since feb is that along time?
2006-07-30 15:30:36 · update #3
I'm gonna only say this now,your not going through a phase it's just you,I know I don't like going both ways but I'm not going to stop you,it's your life yo body,un like some ppl tryna change other ppl and make things worse,you just go with what you really know,I think you really are a Bi and your so called Butches are 'TomBoys" who I am to stop you from being what you are it's just you a part of you, not a part of me it's not a phase it's just you(the way you are).
2006-07-30 15:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lissa305 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to feel the way you are feeling. Relax hun. These are the years you are figuring yourself out. That is what teen years is all about.
I was about 14 when I realized I was attracted to females. I am almost 21 and feel the same way. However, as a relationship I prefer men.
You got a while to figure it all out. Whether it is a faze or not is not up to us to decide. Only you can decide that. Just takes time, experience and patience to yourself.
So what on what others think. This is you and your life. If they dislike it. Then say that is their problem, not yours.
Just be you. You is whatever you want you to be.
2006-07-30 16:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up and stop being a dumb little twit! Your 14 and all your worried about is sex! What is wrong with you? Shouldn't you be worried what kind of fingernail polish you should purchase or what your friends are wearing tomorrow, or some thing simple like that? You are going to wind up with an STD from HELL and then you are going to be on here complaining of some nasty symptoms you don't know what they are and you'll probably wind up pregnant and be yet another statistic!!!!! Act your age!
2006-07-30 14:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by flyingbumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through a phase when i thought I was bi (I even had sexual relations with a female!) but after that little scenario I found out for sure I was straight! But it depends experiment a little to find out!
2006-07-30 15:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by shasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm bi 2 i like both butch and girly...I had that said 2 me and its not a faze its stupid when ppl say that...ur bi and HAVE GAY PRIDE YA i'm like the same way 2.. u sound so much like me....But i just try 2 block it out my mind when ppl say its an faze...Sorry if i did'nt help..
2006-07-30 18:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by ♥l我爱她 ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down... its not the end of the world... There are other girls out there who are in the same situation. Its not a problem! Just do what you feel is right for you. Just don't flaunt it... no one likes a flaming lesbo.
Likely it IS a phase... the desire to experiment... but if you end up enjoying it, and it ends up suiting you... then go with it!
2006-07-30 14:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by mattorodinku 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm Bi and i am proud i hold my head high and you should too!there is nothing wrong with it if they have the right to be staright then we have the right to be gay or BI..I mean it's not like they have to be us...i kno i'm BI because i've even eaten a girl out...idc who knows or what they say or think i'm proud to be who i am
2006-07-30 15:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by angel_monkey_44004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be a phase i thought was bi once but now i kno im not. the only way to find out is to try dating both sexes. [i didnt do it but i think that would work.]
2006-07-30 15:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by Kat+David=♥™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are only 14 you have a while to figure it out just think about what your doing so you don't reget nothing later in life. you still have a while before you have to be certain.
2006-07-30 15:07:35 · answer #9 · answered by baby11kc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At ur age a lot of people swing on both poles.so take it easy-take titties and dickies but are not legally immature?
2006-07-30 14:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by Tom Cruise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋