I have this friend, he's my best friend and we've known eachother since school but I've always felt really attracted to him. I've never told him I'm gay, he's straight and I don't know how he'd react if I told him. I've got to come out one day but recently my feelings for him have increased and I can't stop thinking about how it would be if we were together. We're really close friends, he hugs me so closely and I get such a high out of just being close to him. I really can't keep my head together, I'm getting depressed. I feel like we're more than friends but his got a girlfriend and seems happy.
can anyone help me? My heads all over the place!
2006-07-30 14:34:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Suck him off, that'll bring him round.
2006-07-30 14:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mclaren 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you read your question in the cold light of day, you would hopefully think that you have been doing some major day-dreaming counter to all the facts that you have.
I would not say that I fancy him, if I were you. He may guess that, but it should make things worse between you. He is on a certain path and he really seems to like his liefe as a straight guy.
It might help to say something like, 'You know that I am gay don't you. (Just thought you would like to know.) Then he will reply - "I am straight, but you are still my friend."
That's my theory, anyway.
2006-08-03 13:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by Sciman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....i think if you told him how you feel that would weird him out like no other. don't tell him. he might break the friendship off and you certainly wouldn't be getting anymore hugs......especially if he is the super straight type.
2006-07-30 22:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, keep your feelings inside ,, hes a girlfriend as well so that shows hes not gay,, if you told him it could wreck your friendship...
2006-08-03 03:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by madmarie666@btinternet.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Profile:
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Alias:
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2006-08-01 01:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don`t tell him , try to live alone & minimum your contact with him as much as you can .
try to find another guy close to his qualities & one day - believe me - you`ll get over him.
2006-07-30 22:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by snoozer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-30 21:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by Chad Davenport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋