i broke up with my gf who i had been dating for a year and a half... i know everytime you break up it feels like the world is falling but i feel different. my friends all ditch me and i catch them lieing to me about what my ex says. i mean i dont care if they hang with her but i dont like being left in the dark. what to do?
2006-07-30 14:20:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-07-30 14:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends leave you in the dark. They're not true friends. If I was in the little problem. I would ditch them myself, and find new friends. Catching someone in a lie is not a good things. It means they're going on what someone else says and not asking you for the truth.I was in a relationship with a guy for 4 yrs. and We broke up more then 15 times. and every single time, i felt like my world was falling around me, i was in love with this guy, but i realized i needed to moved on and let him go so hes moved on, I've moved on and i still care about him, but i could care less about what happens to him. im now looking someone new to learn new experiences about the world and other people. ... Pretty much. ditch your friends tell your ex to cut it out and stop ... cause she might be the one giving out the lies and make a new life for yourself and make new friends. That's what i had to do. Good Luck and enjoy life. Ames.
2006-07-30 21:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ames 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to get some new good friends. if your friends ditch you during this time in your life and lie to you, they were never really true friends in the first place. start with some hobbies and hopefully you will pick up some friends along the way.
2006-07-30 21:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG thats terrible, but just find some friends that wont ditch you and forget about ur old friends i mean if they were really ur friends they would be there for u when you just had a tough break up.
2006-07-30 21:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breakups are even awkward for friends. I would just talk to them. Help them feel that they don't have to lie to you.
If they were your friends from the start and not friends the two of you made together I'd get in their case a little.
2006-07-30 21:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up buddy.guys like you make me sick.you break up with her and don't like being in the dark.the fact that she is still in contact with your friends is proof that you must be a real winner of a guy.they would rather stay her friend and lie to you.you should try guys,you might find that special lover you seem to want so badly.
2006-07-30 21:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by curtismarsch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should start talking to other girls and have fun going on dates.Also talk to youre ex-girlfriend and talk to her and ask her if you guys could be cool and mature and be friends.Try to find new friends because if youre friends hide it from you that they chill with youre ex thats not right.God bless.
2006-07-30 21:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by im_blessed_wit_my_hubby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely get a set of new friends. Define friend
2006-07-30 21:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by Weebles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she hates you. Things tend to get more mellow after time goes by.
2006-07-30 21:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by just another consciousness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Growing pains. You really screwed up, young fella.
2006-07-30 21:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you try expressing this to the people involved? I know you may not want to do this but it may help the situation.
2006-07-30 21:22:39 · answer #11 · answered by missdarkstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋