2006-07-30 13:19:11 · 30 answers · asked by hotness 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
red_chrome dont stray from yhe point babes
2006-07-30 13:42:05 · update #1
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This question causes memories to become as vivid as the clearness of the day. But with that said, being over twenty and a virgin in today's society is something to be proud of. Never be ashamed of doing the right thing.
2006-08-05 15:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin of China, PhD 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
To all girls who are concerned that being 20 and still a virgin let me say this to them.... YOU ARE ONLY RESPECTED FOR THAT !!! Just because I have not been able to persuade you to go to bed with me means that you are a decent girl and told me to get stuffed. Marrying a girl who is still a virgin is a WOW to me !! But NOT being a virgin does NOT mean anything negative either !!! Normally it is the fault of the guy... ie. a girl gave him evertything out of trust and love for him and then the relationship did not work out !!! VIRGINITY FOR ME MEANS NOTHING !!! Being a virgin means you have said no... GOOD FOR YOU ! Not being a virgin means a girl has said yes to someone she loved and circumstancs then let her down. Either way... what the hell does virginity or lack of it mean ?
2006-07-30 20:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by RED-CHROME 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO!!!
I grew up in the 70's and nearly all of the girls I knew slept around. They were great "party girls" as we'd all end up "doing it". Later I realized I wanted a girl that had enough sense and foresight to do the right thing and honor herself. I know that sounds hypocritical having done it myself, but sometimes you only realize these things as you get older and have a more clear outlook.
2006-08-07 12:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by DB Cash 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's hard to find someone who's over 20 and still a virgin. Those people are very strong people by nature...They are determinant and know excatly what they want. No, it is not shameful. And I think it's HOT. =P
2006-07-30 22:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by Staccato 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i don think the word vergin and shamfull should ever be in the same sentence cuz on the contrary it is something u should be proud of .. specially girls .. it is a gift n it souldbe given to some1 not only u love but desreve it too
2006-07-30 22:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by mango 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Religious and moral reasons aside, in this day and age it is ESSENTIAL to trust your partner completely. I thought I was safe being married, but still got an STD from my husband. PROTECT YOURSELF!
2006-07-30 20:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by songbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it even anyone else's business? Are you walking around with a sign that spells all that out? You are virtuous. What's terrible about that?
2006-07-30 20:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by The Invisible Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its a smart choice. would you rather have lost your virginity at 13 or 14 and got pregnant or an std??
2006-07-30 20:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by rice puppy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO! Gurl, don't worry. You don't wanna be like all the other hoes and lose your virginity at 13. You're probably just waiting for the right one.
2006-07-30 20:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's far more shameful to be 15 and knocked up!
Kudos to you! I have alot of respect for people who wait, male or female.
2006-08-07 16:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by Funchy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋