Me and my bf are in a fight. He hasnt talked to me since i left last night. Should i send him a message saying goodnight and that i love him? I tried to call him two times during the day, he didnt pick up. What should i do?
2006-07-30 13:18:42 · 21 answers · asked by sandy02 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is calling what should i do?
2006-07-30 13:23:02 · update #1
well if its your fault you should appologize but if its not just let him cool off and hopefully he will come around. if he doesnt then he wasnt really into you in the first place and youre better off without him
2006-07-30 13:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what outcome you want.
If you decided enough is enough and it's time to dump him, don't ever pick up that phone.
Looks like you were thinking of making peace last night though. He's calling... Pick up the phone and say hello. Listen to what he has to say. Go from there. You can always hang up later.
When people are in a situation like this they are in fact theatening to leave. This is how they struggle for power with each other. When this particular situtuation gets resolved, talk to him and figure out what's going on, why are you struggling for power with each other.
2006-07-30 20:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just send a message saying good night and it should be enough cue for him to know that you're ready to make up when he is. Add 'sorry' if the fight was your fault. Don't be discouraged if he doesn't respond immediately, it's not that he hates you, he just needs time to cool off. Leave him alone for a bit after you send that short message, he should get back to you when he's ready. I know it's an unpleasant moment for you... hang in there! :-)
2006-07-30 20:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by crystal iceberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's no bf "trouble", that's love, relationships, life.......... If you still love him, pick up and still send the message "goodnight". If the fight was your fault don't forget to say how sorry you are.
If its his fault wait awhile, depending on the seriousness of the issue let him suffer a minute. then slowly accept his apology.
(He called already, maybe hes trying to say............sorry)
2006-07-30 20:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by dadnnelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go see him. Make the effort. That is, if you're feeling remorseful, or if the fight was your fault.
But if HE started it and is now avoiding you, let it be for a bit. Send him email telling him you've been trying to reach him, and that you feel badly about the fight.
2006-07-30 20:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by beadtheway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to talk to you, he would have answered the phone. Dont keep calling him, dont message him. THAT IS WHAT HE WANTS He knows that you will keep calling. Dont call anymore, let him be and he will come around. TRUST ME. Men are *******!! I know its hard though to not call him, but try not toas long as you can.
2006-07-30 20:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by ncbutterfly_20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a text message that way if he wants to he can answer it back or call you. Then if he dont you might want to start begging for forgiveness.
2006-07-30 20:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by cgmc227 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you like him you should ask yourself. If enough call if he doesn't pick up leave a message tell him you want n that you'll drop by to talk. go to his place and talk it through. Being reasonable...Maybe?
or leave it and let him go to you first...
2006-07-30 20:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was your fault send a card that says sorry. If it was his do not call at all, if he respects you he will call; if he don't you still win,,,,,,at lease you got rid of a loser. sometime too people get in a fight on purpose so that they can break up...maybe he want to
2006-07-30 20:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by butterflyfrills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what you are fighting over, if you feel that you are 100% in the right, then leave it be and let him think about.
2006-07-30 20:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah just hang on there..you tried to contact with him but
seems he ddnt make any move..if he really care and love you...he will talk to you and forgive you if ever u did something wrong with him.
me? i just had a fight with my bf recently....we settled right away but im really stupid coz i ddnt talked to him for two days but last night he just called and want to talk to me and he still care bout me and love me so much.....
2006-07-30 20:24:12 · answer #11 · answered by mudbloodprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋