how do you know if ur bi,lesbian, or gay? and when did you find out and how?
2006-07-30 13:08:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You just know, it's not something that changes it's just always there.
You asked when did we find out. well here's mine
In 8th grade I was invited to hang out with friends after our science fair ( I was very shy and rarely invited to things ) and apparently one of the things they liked to do best was to play spin the bottle. Weeeeeeeellllllll as I waited for my turn I realized that it wouldn't matter how often the bottle pointed to me I would never get to kiss the people I wanted to kiss. It was right at that moment that I knew that it was the other girls that I wanted to kiss and that having to have to kiss the boys was so unappealing. Shortly after that evening I started having sexual dreams and they always involved girls.
2006-07-30 13:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by chocolate sundae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homosexuality is a physical and psychological abnormality. They are born with this condition in varying degrees. Some felt their homosexuality early on in child hood. Others come out of closer a little later. Some were bi-sexual and stayed that way. Some actually go through heterosexual marriages then were unable to hide their sexuality any longer. Then there were the queens and the bulls. It's all how the X and Y chromosomes are finally laid out.
2006-07-30 13:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by Don S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just are. I can remember back at being 7 and knowing. Well not really knowing knowing, but I can remember the feelings I had for a peticular woman. I just couldn't fully grasp what it was until I was about 13 or 14 and even then it took a while to finally be comfortable with it.
2006-07-30 13:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you are any of those when you are deciding to have sex in such a way that is a sin. If you are a female and you have sex with a female, then you have decided to make your body nothing more than human garbage. The same decision is made on any of those examples you gave.
Make the decision that you are not human waste, human garbage. Choose to make the decision that will help yourself know that you are living the life you were made to live.
2006-07-30 13:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not a choice to be gay, bi, or lesiban, it's a matter of how you feel inside. However it is a choice to live the gay lifestyle. A lot of people marry someone of the opposite sex to try to "solve" their problem or to not dissapoint their family. how could someone choose that lifestyle if there is so much descrimination and prejudice? If you're having doubts ask talk to someone about it.
2006-07-30 13:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Alesig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a kid my cousins used to kinda date opposite sex kids, lol but i didnt, i couldnt understand their behaviour! I used to think i was a loner.But then I used to be extra happy when this girl showed up at the playing feild, she was still a kid as i was, i never did anything with her but as a kid i already had these feelings. So i kinda knew from a very young age. If u have any more questions, click on my email on my profile.
2006-08-04 12:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I always knew I was gay, I just didn't admit it to myself until I was about 15.
2006-07-30 13:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew my freshman year when I walked down the hall that first day in school and saw two girls making out by their locker. They were two femmes and I instantly felt good all over. ;-)
2006-08-04 03:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by MR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ou are a girl and you like girls and boys you are bi, if you only like girls you are gay. if you are confused it may be becuse you were abused or something. anyway there is nothing wrong wih who you chose to love as long as you find love.
2006-07-30 13:11:54 · answer #9 · answered by kknpz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew when 2nd period gym class came around during my freshman year of high school 9 yrs ago...I went to high school with a lot of hot guys...
2006-07-30 13:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋