she only did it one time
2006-07-30 13:04:07 · 13 answers · asked by marco z 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
to forgive her yes you can forgive but it has to be when your ready. and being ready means when you accept her oppology you have to be ready to never use it against her again. saying your sorry means youll never do it again saying you accept mean you believe her and you wont chasise her for it.... with that said no you wont forget, ever. there will always be a part of you that remebers and at the worst times your jealouseys will rear it head and its up to you to control it. you have the right to maintian a fearfull eye and to check up on her whereabouts as you have been hurt just make sure you dont loose control and act stupid and controling becuase you did accept. i wish you two the best of luck. the more you two talk the easier it will be to get through it.......
2006-07-30 13:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by joe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well let me say, I had the same thing happen but it was my wife and yes you can forgive and yes you have to forget b/c if you cant forget then there can not be true forgiveness. And when you forgive that means she has to change her ways and stop cheating, If she dosent then she shouldn't be forgiven anyway. But from what I have see in my days, once thay do it they always do it. Good luck!
2006-07-30 20:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that it is easier for a man to forgive than a women. No one is able to forget, please. I know for a fact that if it were you she would be throwing at you face every little while. Oh, my I bet she is wondering why you have not asked her how and what they did. You know that is probably burning up in her head.
2006-07-30 20:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can forgive, but rarely can you forget. Once the trust is broken, it's really tough to get it back, if ever. How do you know she did it only once ?
2006-07-30 20:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a question of trust, either way. If you did trust her
and she cheated then you are gonna have a hard time trusting her again even if she swears it'll never happen again. There are no guarantees in this at all, you have
to look inside yourself to figure out what you can and
cannot handle no one can decide that but you.
2006-07-30 20:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by frustrated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may promise you that she will never do it again, but believe me, she will. I am going through the same problem now. They don't think they are doing anything wrong. When you find out, they believe it would have been fine if you hadn't found out. They are selfish and disrespectful. Move on before you get hurt even more.
2006-07-30 20:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive yes, forget no.. u'll never forget it.. now can u control the never forgetting to get passed it, is another thing.. but u'll NEVER forget..
2006-07-30 20:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, if you ever find a way to forget about it, let me know, ok??!!
but other than that you can forgive, it's easy, just let it go......but move on. you deserve better
2006-07-30 20:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by Arianne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can forgive.. you will never forget.. but i would move on.. cheaters dont stop what they do.. and never will.. and your relsationship will not be like it used to.. becase u will want to check up on her .. will worry what she is doing.. moving on is just the better thing to do
2006-07-30 20:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by Grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can forgive and move on.
2006-07-30 20:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by mkjhfiuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋