Should i keep living?

Question

I have no friends, alot of people say they dont but i HAVE NO FRIENDS. never had a gf,everyone is rude to me, ive always had nothing good happen to me my whole life of 21 years, i live with my step dad (who is the rudest old man in the world. and treats his dog better than me.)cause my mom left to live in the city with her new bf, she spends money on surgeries and herself and helped my step bro and cousin with school but not me with anything, oh and we moved from the city to central california which is horrible, theres NOTHING to do here, my cars always break down, cant get a job(/girls) cause i look mexican and im a bit overweight everyone hires their family and friends its that country here yes , im allergic to the air here. i have acid reflux, and chest pains, allergies 24/7 365 days a year.dont tell me to go to church or aceppt jesus or anything either i went for 10 years and went to camp was in the band and went 4 days a week to church, even got treated like crap there too

more . . . this stuff u might now believe or think is stupid. but things fall on me all the time, im always getting cut on my foot or leg alll the time again . . and the air conditioning in the house blows dust all over the place which i am allergic too, so everyday if im in the house my face is dry my eyes hurt, and my nose is stuffy, i cant smell anything ever. no food nothing. when i go out side since i live in central california my face is dry too and i sneeze every 10 mins, my nose is always stuffed. sometimes i cant breathe from my allergies, theres alot more but ill leave it at that. this is just a little of all the things that happen to me.

i forgot to mention i cant loose weight for some reason lol, i was in karate for 5 years ima black belt. skateboarding for 10 years, and i ate heatlthy food and worked out for a long time and never lost 1 pound. i keep hearing its gonna get better, but its been years and it seems like its getting worse, counseling gonna get rid of my bad life? get me out of this town? get me friends?
i dont think so lol counseling is for people that dont realize how good they have it.

PEOPLE THAT HAVE IT WORSE THAN ME? IM NOT WHINING IM TRYING TO SEE WHAT PEOPLE THINK. AND PEOPLE IN SHELTERS I KNOW ABOUT THEM CAUSE I WAS ONE. I WAS HOMELESS NOW I HAVE A ROOF OVER MY HEAD BUT THATS ABOUT IT. HAVENT HAD A FULL MEAL IN MONTHS.
and i cant move out obviously i have no money, and i applied at 30 places around my house since i have to walk in this 110 weather. and yes i dressed nice and went back and called them all back.

Answer 1

The fact that you have made it this far means to me that you have strength where others have given up and ruined all hope of improvement by ending their lives. Imagine that if you give up right now, all those people that you may meet in your future who will be inspired and changed for the better through meeting you. Later in life you could really inspire people in a similar situation and save more than your own life that you should not give up on now...

Answer 2

You sure are whining a lot. Maybe people treat you badly because you don't seem like a very pleasant person to get to know.

I would be depressed too if I had to live in Central California but you might as well make the best of it. You're old enough to get a job and earn your own living, no reason you have to live with your father. Or you can go to college. You have to be your own person and not define your life on what your parents or other people do to you.

Anyone can get a girl, it's attitude and not looks. A lot of ppl like the Mexican look. But you should lose the weight, that's your choice. Acid reflux, take calcium or zantac or something and don't eat stuff you shouldn't. Chest pains are from anxiety but if you can afford a doctor, check that. Everything has a solution.

Bottom line, you're depressed and that can color how you look at everything. Depression brings social isolation because most people don't want to deal with depressed people, and that brings more depression. If you're drinking too much that is also a vicious circle. It won't change until you make it change. There could also be an outside reason for depression, a chemical imbalance or a medical condition.

Most people who feel like killing themselves don't, and they eventually feel better about things. That's just the odds.

Answer 3

Yes you should keep living. If you don't like your present situation, do something about it. Yes there will be hard work involved. You say you're a bit overweight. Do something about it. Go get some exercise a few times a week. Go for a walk each day, do sit ups. Don't give up on looking for a job or friends. Everyone out there has someone. Some people just have to look a little harder and work a little harder then others. I'm sorry that your life hasn't been that good. But YOU HAVE THE CHANCE TO CHANGE IT. Don't just sit around feeling sorry for yourself. That gets you no where. Keep looking for a job until you get one. Then save up money to rent an apartment and move out, away from your step dad. Don't give up. No matter how bad something might be. You have the chance to change it, so change it. Yes it's a hard task, but once you get out there and start getting somewhere you're going to feel so much better about yourself. Good luck.

Answer 4

You think that this type of life is only falling on you. You are wrong try this one. Being a pretty girl and in my teens. Everything you can think of that is bad and can happen to a girl happen to me. Rape, beaten up the list goes on and on. I want to take my life the pain was so bad and deep. There is something I learn from reading the bible. In the old testament the story of JOB. JOB was tested in the worst way all because Satan wanted to prove he could destroy JOB's faith in GOD. It took me a long time to find and keep a job but six months after I got one I bought my home and three months later I bought a new car with 15 miles on it. Keep moving forward placing one foot in front of the other. To make a friend you need to be a friend and stop looking at the help everyone around you are receiving and make what you need. Have you tried to get a job at UPS, FedEx, or DHL. They are good places to start. Keep calling them to show you want to work. Let me know how it turns out. I know putting the pass behind us is very hard and if you have nothing be negativity in your world it is time to change your world. You may need to move away from family. I moved and it was the best thing I have ever done.

Answer 5

If there was anyone on earth with a reason to live jsut to prove to many that one can come thru hell and succeed, its you. Theres a saying here that applies to you;"if you want something then you are willing to take a risk, but if you want something bad enough, then youre willing to risk it all." You may feel like youve got nothing,but you do, Gods greatest gift; life itself. Youve been thru hell so now the only way is up, all the way to the heavens itself. All you have to do is start taking baby steps toward getting your feet on the ground. The rest will follow behind, but first you must decide what you want to do, there must be something you can work at, or are good at. Note: you can work on the computer and type your ideas with minimal mistakes. A job at a fast food place is only a stepping stone to a better life, but right now is a huge step in you proving so many people that they were wrong and that you really are somebody. Somebody whos about to tell the world, watch out, here I come and nobody is going to stop me from getting out of this hell hole. It wont be easy but nothing good in this world ever is. YOU CAN DO IT. Just keep reminding yourself that you are somebody and God doesnt make junk. There are plenty of people out there willing to help you make it if you just look especially the churches. Dont look at the world being a bad place as a result of the way people addressed you before because the world is fullof idiotic people that will answer for their stupidity someday, Just be willing to accept anything that comes your way, because you never know which door is your answer. Believe in yourself and self confidence will come. May God be with you and good luck. You can email me anytime you want, Ill be your friend, and Ill get back to you as soon as I can

Answer 6

The fact that you are a life is a mircle and you should not take this lightly. A lot of us at some time felt like taking our lives, when family, friends and at times every thing around us seem to fail us. I don't have all the answers to your predicament or a magic formula to change your problems around.

One of the first thing you need to do is to stop feeling negative about your whole situation. You are not the first or the last to be in such a predicament. There are people in the world in a situation worse than yours. You i'm sure don't have to go to the gabbage dump to look for craps of food to eat. Some people have never seen, or know how to use a computer, as well as a lot of things you take for granted.

You mention your car breaking down have you done any preventative checks on the car ? To avoid a lot of things from happening to you. if you have a positive aspect in your life and move in that direction as well as to tell your self. You can do any thing thorugh Jesus Christ who strengthen you and believe in that.

Things will happen as the Lord help those that help themselves.

Answer 7

I think the best thing about life is the opportunity to change things around. You can lose weight, you can find a job, go to school and find a better job. The great thing about America you can change your life and the best thing is when you do you will prove to so many people that it can be done. If you give up than you will never have that chance. There is someone for everyone. As for your acid reflux check the food you are eating. Greasy food kick but as for your allergies there is medication. However, if you dislike your life change it by creating a vision of how you want it and walk in to that life. You can email me as well if you need a person by visiting my name on yahoo answers and/or 360. Trust me I know how it feels to be down. If I had given up I wouldn't have my 2 little angels!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Answer 8

I'm sorry you feel this way.

But as someone mentioned, things almost have to get better, they can't get too much worse, right?

I can tell you that many of us go through times like this. You feel like it will never change, but it usually does sooner or later.

You are generating a lot of negative energy around yourself. Somehow this needs to change to break out of the haze of it all. The energy vibes you put out tend to reflect back to you, and before you just think this is just a load of crap, at least be open minded enough to consider it.

You need a friend, really bad. There are many people your same age feeling the same way. Find one, relate to them, and realize you are not alone with your feelings.

To answer your question, YES, you should keep living. Carry on, and I wish you enough....

An old saying reads:
Do not resent growing old, many are denied the privilege.

Answer 9

Sounds to me like your in a deep depression. Go to your local employment office, even if it's a crappy job take it to get out of the house. You need to find a job then find you an efficency apartment cheap with all utilities provided. Start living for yourself. I don't have friends either, my husband is my only friend and the only one I need. I have found in the past all the people I thought were my friends, weren't. When I got married and moved 110 miles from where I grew up I realized I had no friends. Be happy with yourself, do things for you. Don't beat yourself up because you don't have a girlfriend, you just haven't found your soulmate. Hey, I found mine in yahoo chat, he's wonderful. Everything happens for a reason, and no I'm not saying go to church, I couldn't tell you the last time I went. Sounds like your trying to hard to be liked. I don't give a **** if anyone likes me or not, their the ones missing out because I know I'm a great person to be around. Put your head up and start taking care of yourself. Things will happen when they are suppose to. Good luck and screw what everyone else thinks!

Answer 10

You have had a series of bad breaks and poor treatment...but don't give up on life! At 21 you have plenty of time to turn things around. There r grants available thru the government that will help with tuition for college...u can get a part-time job some place, and as soon as possible get to another part of the country, meet new ppl. You have to like yourself before anyone else will like you. Ok so you don't want to go to church...try a PSI seminar or read a book by Anthony Robbins. You really have to gain some self esteem before you can move forward. Best of luck to you

Answer 11

There is a reason for everyone to be here and you have one too. You just need to get some self esteem and pick your self up shake your self off and move on to find true happiness with in your self and till you do you will always feel that way. You want help that is for sure. You asked for it here now you need to bring your self to ask for it in your home town and take it seriously and follow through with it or you will not go anywhere in life. Start with just being a more positive person and the rest will come and you will feel better about yourself and others.