i hear alot of insoltes about my weight?

Question

like you look older then your age iam16 by the way & the worst thing its coming from both sex i feel so sad & want to cry on my bed ?& sometimes i feel like to kill myself or wishing to die?

Answer 1

you shouldnt let what other people say about you. get you down just say to yourself.I'm pretty and thats all that matters.

Answer 2

I have heard them all and i hate them and i get after people about it. I was once very heavy and it hurt. I got down to a okay but still heavy weight and now i tell people all the time Have you ever been big NO because if you have you would know how i feel. Big is beautiful we are one of a kind very low mantience and have better shininer prettier insides than the skinny ones that flaunt their stuff for trophies How many can i get in a week and how much can i get them to buy me before i dump them and why go for them when they are always looking for better when we are looking for what inside and not on the outside. Dont get mad just get even and show them how much better you are and can be and you will be so much happier

Answer 3

Insults come from people who don't feel good about themselves. I try to tell my daughter (age 9) that feeling good about yourself comes from the inside, not from the outside (in other words, you have to like yourself, not hate others).

Sorry to hear about your treatment...I wish there was some easy answer to give you but there isn't. So many of us let other people decide for us how we feel, and it's not right.

If it helps, I think you are perfect at being YOU. You're wonderful in your own way, and that doesn't matter if you are anerexic or fat, beautiful or ugly. No one can replace you, and the world is a better place for having you here. Be strong and learn to love yourself no matter what anyone else has to say.

Good luck Honey, and believe in YOU!

Answer 4

Killing your self is not the answer. If you are overweight, find the reason. Do you eat because you are bored or lonely. Participate in more athletics at school When I was overweight, I joined the basketball team, I started eating better foods and less and I lost the weight. Instead of eating 3 large meals plus snacks, I Eat half of my breakfast, I package up the rest and eat it midmorning, I do the same for lunch and dinner. I find I eat far less junk food and am not hungry.

Answer 5

you just have to think there are all kinds of people in this world.if we were all the same what a boring place this would be. i do understand what you are saying...i have been heavy most of my life....and i will tell you,,,,there are alot of mean people out there...but keep you head high...and smile because looks are not everything its whats inside,,,,if you ever want to talk...email me...i would love to chat wil you :) take care

Answer 6

dont worry about youll grow into it i am fat too i get insulted all the time like youre fat or you need to shut up and eat a twinkle!!!! ya it happens but you have to get over it im not saying that you have to hold all your feelings in youre allowed to cry if it gets to overwhelmeing just talk to one of your friend or sis or bro or mom!!! i get sad to when someone says stuff!!!!!! but i get over it eventually or i talk to my mom!!!! it is ok it happened to everyone that is not "normal" or under 130 lb. it is ok!!!!

Answer 7

i had that some what of the same problem growing up and what i started doing was saying the same thing back to them and after awhile people stop saying it

Answer 8

Why don't you work on your English and spelling. For example it is insults not insoltes. Besides work on your personality - then your weight won't matter.

Answer 9

You have a few choices:

You can be mean back.
You can accept yourself for what you are and ignore everyone else.
You can lose weight.