I really want to be able to please my girlfriend sexually... any tips? what do women like?
2006-07-30 12:05:40 · 17 answers · asked by TheDude 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The only way of getting a true answer to this question is by asking to her, communicating with her, and trying new things. If you're a member of Livejournal, there's the community _sextips. You can ask any kind of question there about sex and get numberous responses.
Some suggestions of improving a sex life would be.. Ask your girl what her greatest fantasy is (within reason) and then, surprise her by making it come true. Communicate during sex, ask her if she's doing something you like or if you should move to a different area in pleasure. Ask her about her shittiest sex experience, then you know what NOT to do. If she's the romance type, surprising a girl with a room full of candles and roses is a sure deal. I personally would fall for it anytime.
Honestly though, you just need to communicate with your girlfriend. Everyone is different in what they perfer, so asking us probably won't do you nearly as much good as asking her.
2006-07-30 12:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by controlless_poet 2 · 13⤊ 3⤋
The geriatric answer goes like this: inexperienced girls may not know what they want even if you ask them, and unless you have had some "extensive training" you may not either. Good sex is a mind game. Phone/computer sex with each other is a great way to say what you want, or want to try without going through the motions until your both ready. (and its hot too) In the practical sense its pretty easy for us girls to tell when we are on target. You fellas have to pay a bit more attention. If she likes what your doing - you'll know it.
2006-07-30 19:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by JuneCleaver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds weird, but try a mentholated cough drop.(Halls is best, your choice of flavor.) After it's been in your mouth and you feel the coolness in YOUR throat go to town(Downtown) after a little time, give her a little soft blow, then (without saying it out loud) say "Hot" with the long ooooo. The "T" isn't needed really. Try that, it really works great...Later, maybe she will return the favor. It works on men too. ENJOY the fun and let us know how she & you enjoyed it. Okay? No details..Please.
2006-07-30 19:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is ask her! If your too embarrassed to do that then just start trying different things. Get in tune with her body, and listen to the moans she makes. Eventually You'll be able to tell if she likes what your doing or REALLY like what you doing!
2006-07-30 19:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by Inga-dinga-do 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind, caring, and sensitive to her needs, and wants. Don't rush things, take your time let her do things on her terms, but don't trick her. Don't act like you don't want to do something. Be open to her suggestions unless it's just something you don't like the idea of. Make her feel like number one and that she's all you care about. If you make her feel special, respected (not used) and important and take your time making her feel good and she will WANT to do anything for you (within reason of course)
2006-07-30 19:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by JBWPLGCSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her or try whatever comes into your head and watch her responses to them. a great thing to do which alot of men know about but also lots dont is to use your thumb instead of your fingers when your going down
2006-07-30 19:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by RACHEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women like the same things. so if you want to please your girlfriend, you need to ask her what she wants. othterwise, you may end up displeasing her. anotherthing you need to do is make sure what she wants is comfortable with. and believe me, if she cares about you the way your do about her, she will care about pleasing you too, so she wont push you past your limits
2006-07-30 19:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by taxas_cowgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooohhhh lllaaaaaallllaa... girls love it when u give them roses... then take youre coat off and say "is it hot in here or is it just u?"
then say "u have beautiful eyes" then " you know lately, ive been falling in love with u even more" and then shell get in the groove...
and make sure u dont wear boxers with spongebob on them! lol:)
if that dosent work just ask her.
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2006-07-30 19:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by Tigers Gal! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is ask her what she likes. Every woman is different.
2006-07-30 19:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by Starr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, you really do need to ask her
2006-07-30 19:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by numberonebirdlover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋