I'm friends with this girl and we had a brief little sexual thing several months ago. She talks about sex all the time but won't go any farther now. I dont want to make an enemy of her but i need to get her out of my head. legally
2006-07-30 11:53:41 · 12 answers · asked by Rick 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Find someone else to be f**kbuddies with, man....simple as that. :)
2006-07-30 11:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Julia L. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice has to be pretty general because you don't relate enough facts for me to address questions like:
1.Is she involved with anyone else? What were her reasons for doing it the first time? Did you satisfy her? What is her attitude(!) towards committment? What is your attitude to commitment?
2.What are your general situations? Are you a busy person,active with school and a job and other activities? Or do you find yourself with a lot of idle time to mope and brood over things?
My advice is simply to be busier.Join some clubs at school or get involved with some volunteer activities. I personally met the hottest babe I ever met when I was in your situation; I was obsessing over this one girl who like, a little fickle, then a friend got me to attend a meeting of this volunteer group, and all the people there impressed me as being really hip, together people who know what's going on in this world and want to make a difference, and out of the blue in walked this hot babe, way better looking than the chick that I was obsessing over, even though I could not have imagined such a thing before this happened and bingo! My problem was solved.
Try it. You might like it.
2006-07-30 12:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by timothy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you were just friends so realy be a friend to this girl and use some other girl who doesn't mind it like a piece of meat. maybe a brief sexual thing to you was something more to her and she may be saying enough is enough i will not be continuously used. used many times over is a lot worse then only for a brief thing. talk to her and see what the deal is. that is the only way u will know .
2006-07-30 12:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by dana_29646 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rick, she is paying you back for thinking of her as a "brief little sexual thing." Accept that you are a jerk, and let her get on with her life.
2006-07-30 12:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by Hey Joe! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find another one. They're everywhere, and after a while, you'll find that the one you're "obsessing" about isn't the greatest one in the world. It's a matter of perspective, so, go find another one. God Bless you.
2006-07-30 12:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy The Game by Neil Strauss. Now.
2006-07-30 11:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by kcobain96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's teasing you, or completely unaware of your feelings. Talk to her, but you may just have to settle for being friends.
2006-07-30 11:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by TigerLilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time you think of her smack yourself in the jewels. You'll have her out of your mind quick!!!
2006-07-30 12:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone else, definitely
And who knows, the more you get interested in someone else, it might get her attention again...
2006-07-30 11:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by squirellywrath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just avoid her. She sounds immature and confused, you don't need that.
2006-07-30 12:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋