Whatever relaxes her is wonderful. I spent two hours working on the feet and legs of an army soldier from Vietnam. As strange as that may sound, foot and leg massage is absolutely healing to anyone who is wound up or tense, especially deep-seated tension like Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. The benefits of someone working with your feet is just incredible. Your breathing changes - deepens, your whole body settles and your Spirit seeks Earth. It is the best way in Christendom to "ground" someone who is all wound up inside, especially inside his heart or psyche. Very few people, relatively speaking, know of the benefits of foot massage. But when I have not seen my friend for over a year, the first thing I insist he do when he arrives at my home is to go into our living room and sit back in our Lazy Boy, which pushes back, and brings the legs and feet up slightly above waist level. After two hours, when you look at his face, his eyes have completely relaxed, his lungs and upper chest are bringing up mucous from being decongested, and his energy is about three times what it was when he first arrived. Also, because the breathing is in a longer, fuller cycle, the air he is taking into his lungs is being used more completely. I cannot recommend the foot and leg massages you are kind enough to provide your special girl highly enough. Only she will be able to Thank You afterward. You should also feel more energy when you finish working with her tension. The stress and pace at which we all live these days points up how very necessary this kind of loving care truly is, and if it is done at least a couple of times a week, the benefits not just to the person receiving it, but for the person providing it, is just immense. And absolutely not, about being regarded as crazy for taking the time to carefully wax her legs for her. Older people have clipped each other's toenails for one another as an act of love and kindness... as you get older, you realize the more you reach out to help others the more it really helps - you. Thank you for letting me have my say on this matter, and a personal Thank You from me for taking such good care of someone who obviously means so much to you. Sent with good energies, as always, from Chris in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A.
2006-07-30 12:12:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Wow, you sound like the perfect boyfriend. Waxing her legs would be so cool! Unless of course, she doesn't want you to.
Make a natural fruit and cooked, cooled oatmeal face mask to beautify skin, and then kiss it off of her. Ha ha! Ooh, I wish I had a recipe for you. Try mangoes. Or really mushy persimmon, but they aren't in season yet.
Remembering my fave boyfriend, I used to love just simply bathing together in a big clawfoot tub, rinsing out each other's hair with a little bucket. That is one of my happiest memories. Nothing fancy. I take back that oatmeal thing (unless of course u find it as funny as I do)... simple... sensual... yeah, keep it simple.
2006-07-30 11:46:21
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answered by jarm 4
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Hi there. I'd just ask what she wants.
Waxing and that can be a bit personal so she may not want it.
However, you could do the candle light dinner thing we talk about before. Do it once a week while your not on tour and treat her to a face mask and a hair mask. That would be nice.
Of course dinner would need to be before the masks, not during. lmao!
Enjoy!
D*
2006-07-30 21:24:32
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answered by Anonymous
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My X and I used to put make-up on each other. Whatta hoot. Flourescent body paint is always fun, too. I don't think anyone would burn you at the stake for waxing her legs, though.
How 'bout a nice facial? It not only exfoliates, but it's theraputic AND stimulating. Sugar Scrubs are good....
2006-07-30 12:39:01
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answered by girl next door 2
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Ask her what she likes. Different women like different things.
Wow. I never knew famous rockers could be such great boyfriends.
2006-07-30 11:56:13
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answered by farah0917 2
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Why not shave her legs thats always nice or paint her nails that'll be funny ;-)
2006-07-30 11:40:45
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answered by Anonymous
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I wrapped mine in cling film. She's still as fresh as day I stuffed her in the back of the wardrobe three weeks ago....................perhaps I shouldn't have admitted that!
2006-07-30 11:45:58
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answered by Anonymous
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Pay for her to go to a spa!
2006-07-30 12:21:40
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answered by Gypsie 5
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just ask her every girl is different and likes different things
2006-07-30 11:43:15
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answered by Anonymous
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try waxing her armpits she'll love you for it coz i swear it is IMPOSSIBLE to do it yourself, trust me!
2006-07-30 11:45:18
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answered by Anonymous
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